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LTR, once was "perfect," but one lie led to a downward spiral of mistrust made worse after a cross country move and opposite work schedules. Boy appears to want girl more than she wants him, leading her to have suspicious dalliances with other guys, leading him to pain.
He still wants to move back home and keep trying. She is done but won't admit it.
Well, he-ll, I'll just cut and paste: Dump her already!
I can at least identify with the gal's unwillingness to move back to the Nawtheast. I wouldn't move there for anybody. Awful winter weather, high taxes, gun control, crowding, who needs it?
Reading the original post was like climbing up a really long stairway without landings; you just have to keep on going and going on going and going and going, never a chance to rest, just keep going and going . . .
But I did make it all the way through (go me!) and OP, here is what I got from it: she is not the one for you. That doesn't make you a bad person, or her a bad person; it just means that you're not the right ones for each other. Enjoy the happy memories you made together, but accept that it's in the past and it's not coming back.
People sometimes say "follow your heart" but the heart can often lead you astray. Follow your head. Go back to the Northeast, accept the high-paying job, continue your education, and enjoy being with your family and friends.
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