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Old 06-13-2015, 10:34 PM
 
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LOL, this post is outrageous. I write about wanting a relationship and now I'm an ******* who "pumps and dumps"?

She didn't ask about my history. And there's nothing bad about it.
You write about you want a relationship but you don't talk about wanting anything more than an arrangement based what you see as your good traits that a woman is supposed to take note of and agree to be with you. You sound rather cold.....not someone to have a marriage and start a family with. From the sound of it you may as well be shopping for a new watch...not trying to find another human being to share your life with.

As for the pump and dump...you claim to have no problem finding partners for sex...but a woman is taking it slow with you and she is the problem?
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Old 06-13-2015, 10:49 PM
 
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You write about you want a relationship but you don't talk about wanting anything more than an arrangement based what you see as your good traits that a woman is supposed to take note of and agree to be with you. You sound rather cold.....not someone to have a marriage and start a family with. From the sound of it you may as well be shopping for a new watch...not trying to find another human being to share your life with.

As for the pump and dump...you claim to have no problem finding partners for sex...but a woman is taking it slow with you and she is the problem?
Sorry, did you want a full transcript of all of our conversations? Should I send you all the photos she sent me of herself and my witty affectionate commentary in response? Would that convince you?

You're aware that women can make decisions for themselves and that you don't have to lie to/mislead them to enjoy sexual encounters, right?
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Old 06-13-2015, 10:50 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Yes, yes, and yes.



I don't know about that. I think you start denigrating yourself just by sticking around after a certain point. Date 4 was that point.
Fair enough. Then...onto the next one.
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Old 06-13-2015, 10:54 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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I've got to admit, the OP really doesn't sound that bad..
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Old 06-13-2015, 10:59 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I've got to admit, the OP really doesn't sound that bad..
Yeah, he's fine.
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Old 06-13-2015, 11:03 PM
 
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I've got to admit, the OP really doesn't sound that bad..
He may have some positive atrributes...under all the angst...but there are lots of issues that are going to keep him from his 'goal'.
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Old 06-13-2015, 11:13 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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He may have some positive atrributes...under all the angst...but there are lots of issues that are going to keep him from his 'goal'.
I don't see how he has a lot of issues. All he seems to be doing is questioning the values of society, which is a good thing.
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Old 06-14-2015, 12:57 AM
 
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Try to talk to as many women as you can.

Never waste time or energy on any woman until she has proven herself to be different than ALL the others you have met.

Be upfront with them about what you want and if they aren't in agreement quickly move to the next.

It's all about numbers. The more you meet the quicker you will be able to figure out what you like and don't like.

Wish someone would have sat me down and told me this when I was in my teens.
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Old 06-14-2015, 09:16 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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From my standpoint, what I have to offer is a slam dunk..."
This ^^^ is your problem.

You think WAY too much of yourself to be in a relationship with someone else. Your ego is your downfall.

You did it wrong.

Find some humility and work to get to know other people. Have a true interest in THEM rather than an interest in their appreciation of YOU and all you "have to offer."
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Old 06-14-2015, 09:24 AM
 
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I don't see how he has a lot of issues. All he seems to be doing is questioning the values of society, which is a good thing.
Questioning things is great...it's needed for griwth...but that is not what this person is doing.
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