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Old 06-22-2015, 12:25 PM
 
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RT , would you like to marry an asian wife ,if yes, can you overcome the culture diffirence or other difficulties , what makes you to look for asian wife? some interesting things happen between your couple life
If she's already a wife, nobody can marry her.

 
Old 06-22-2015, 12:27 PM
 
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I think a lot of it has to do with very outdated stereotypes
I wonder if we think the same when women say that southern men are great gentlemen, always pay, etc. Culture/traditions do play a role in how people interact with the opposite sex. Some actions can be seen more clearly than others but there are a couple of differences.
 
Old 06-22-2015, 12:28 PM
 
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Depends on which part of Asian they are from. I take you mean oriental women as Indian are Asian too.

The best traditional wife, submissive and family oriented, would be a Japanese woman, and a Korean woman would the next in line. Vietnamese, Laos, Filipino, etc. are somewhere up there too.

I would NOT marry a Chinese woman as most Chinese women are so unbelievably materialistic. The matchmaking in China often sounds like prostitution - I'll marry you if you have a house, a car and a nice salary etc. Chinese women are also very controlling, mostly over money of course, once you let them into your life. Look up Wendy Deng, who has been widely admired and modeled by the Chinese women.

Of course Asians born and raised in America would be totally different.
Japan has one of lowest birthrates in the world and Japan men have hard times having sex
 
Old 06-22-2015, 12:38 PM
 
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Japan has one of lowest birthrates in the world and Japan men have hard times having sex
^ This. They'll be extinct at the rate they're going, if the trend continues.
 
Old 06-22-2015, 12:40 PM
 
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Americanized Asian women can be attractive to me. The majority are not americanized, and look like zombies to me.
 
Old 06-22-2015, 12:43 PM
 
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Our Daughter In Law is Chinese and just recently was able to move to the US to be with our Son and she is definitely not a traditional stereotype and they appear to be getting along just fine so far.
 
Old 06-22-2015, 12:44 PM
 
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I would NOT marry a Chinese woman as most Chinese women are so unbelievably materialistic. The matchmaking in China often sounds like prostitution - I'll marry you if you have a house, a car and a nice salary etc. Chinese women are also very controlling, mostly over money of course, once you let them into your life. Look up Wendy Deng, who has been widely admired and modeled by the Chinese women.
To elaborate.. Chinese from more westernized regions, Hong Kong for example, are quite a bit more materialistic than Chinese from more remote areas of mainland china. I find it amusing to observe the "cultural" differences in my office between Shanghai, Taiwan, Hong Kong, and mainland China... they don't always see eye to eye. Heck... they don't even speak the same language.
 
Old 06-22-2015, 12:47 PM
 
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^ This. They'll be extinct at the rate they're going, if the trend continues.
Well there is a population in California and Hawaii.So they are not completely gone.
 
Old 06-22-2015, 01:01 PM
 
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Every time I hear this stereotype, I think of my FIL's second wife, my SIL's mom, who is Taiwanese-born and came to the U.S. for nursing school in her early 20s, and is basically the polar opposite of every quiet, subservient, accommodating, takes-backseat-to-the-man, demure, deferring stereotype out there, and can't help but laugh. The woman is hell on wheels.
I personally love hell on wheels...lol
 
Old 06-22-2015, 01:32 PM
 
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lol! When you put it that way...

I had one guy tell me he likes a petite woman like that because he can throw her around, carry her and what not around the bedroom. He's an average size guy, so I guess he needs someone very small to be able to lift her? I don't know lol
Because he's smaller, I can understand that. (throw her around...will swing dancing a part of foreplay activities?) The whole fragile fetish is another thing though, lol!
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