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Old 07-08-2015, 02:38 AM
 
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In my opinion, certainly not. I value an attractive face more than an attractive body. A person can have a body that looks like it was sculptured by ancient Greeks, but if they have a face that looks like it was ran over by a HGV then what's the point? The first thing I'm going to see is their face so everything else is ultimately irrelevant.

SJP is a good example actually - she's quite ugly, but has a thin body. Does her thin body make up for her horsey appearance? Hell no it does not. A person with a beautiful face but a less-than-beautiful body can at least work on their body by perhaps getting in shape. A person with an ugly face can't do much about it.

Besides, we all have differing standards for what constitutes a beautiful body. Personally, I find really muscular men to be a huge turnoff, and prefer more toned-but-less-defined builds, or even a dad bod.

And, of course, personality counts for a lot. Even if someone had a beautiful face and body, if they act like jerks or are incredibly conceited, then they're an instant turn-off. I also can't stand gym rats - you know, the ones who post nothing but gym motivational posters on Facebook and Instagram and constantly bang on about the gym as if it's their only hobby in Life. Gah.
Who wants a thin body without some curves in the right places??!??!?
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Old 07-08-2015, 02:53 AM
 
Location: 20 years from now
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I'm a face guy myself--so a face it is.

My wife has a beautiful smile and a beautiful face to match.
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Old 07-08-2015, 03:32 AM
 
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Who wants a thin body without some curves in the right places??!??!?
Lots of people. Thin, non-curvy women have relationships too.
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Old 07-08-2015, 03:40 AM
 
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No. But maybe a beautiful personalty can.
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Old 07-08-2015, 08:52 AM
 
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I have a question for all you FACE guys - How in the world can you get "excited" enough to have sex with someone with an ugly body? I cant do it. I am assuming that we are not talking about already being married or in love with the person, because I am thinking of the initial stages of developing a relationship. Even if she had the face of a young Aishwara Rai or 25 year old Monica Bellucci but on a Honey Boo Boo Momma June body, NO WAY would I be able to have sex with her. NO WAY!!!
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Old 07-08-2015, 10:27 AM
 
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Who wants a thin body without some curves in the right places??!??!?
You can be thin with some curves. I'm thin with some curves. I'm just not naturally super curvey. Maybe you're thinking "skinny," which I take to mean more rail-like.

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Old 07-08-2015, 10:39 AM
 
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I have a question for all you FACE guys - How in the world can you get "excited" enough to have sex with someone with an ugly body? I cant do it. I am assuming that we are not talking about already being married or in love with the person, because I am thinking of the initial stages of developing a relationship. Even if she had the face of a young Aishwara Rai or 25 year old Monica Bellucci but on a Honey Boo Boo Momma June body, NO WAY would I be able to have sex with her. NO WAY!!!
I'm not a guy, but I rarely see men with nice faces and horrible bodies. Weight issues usually affect the face too.
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Old 07-08-2015, 10:52 AM
 
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I'm not a guy, but I rarely see men with nice faces and horrible bodies. Weight issues usually affect the face too.
There are cute chubby guys in Chicagoland lol
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Old 07-08-2015, 11:33 AM
 
Location: The point of no return, er, NorCal
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I'm not a guy, but I rarely see men with nice faces and horrible bodies. Weight issues usually affect the face too.
In some cases nice features are still nice even with a plumper face. Obviously bone structure is less defined on rounder or plumper faces, but the nice features and symmetry are still present. I've seen a picture of my husband when he was 30 lbs heavier, back when he was 21, and he was still good-looking. He just had less defined/chiseled features.

I'm heavier now post-pregnancy than I was when I married my husband. It's noticeable in my face, but my face is still nice even with the extra weight. Though much nicer when I was slimmer.

I know quite a few heavy women with pretty faces. Not all have pretty faces, but some do. I've dated bigger men (tall, too) that have a really handsome/pleasing face. I greatly prefer a nice face.
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Old 07-08-2015, 01:09 PM
 
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In some cases nice features are still nice even with a plumper face. Obviously bone structure is less defined on rounder or plumper faces, but the nice features and symmetry are still present. I've seen a picture of my husband when he was 30 lbs heavier, back when he was 21, and he was still good-looking. He just had less defined/chiseled features.

I'm heavier now post-pregnancy than I was when I married my husband. It's noticeable in my face, but my face is still nice even with the extra weight. Though much nicer when I was slimmer.

I know quite a few heavy women with pretty faces. Not all have pretty faces, but some do. I've dated bigger men (tall, too) that have a really handsome/pleasing face. I greatly prefer a nice face.
The most attractive faced guy I ever had the pleasure of making out with was someone who used to be fat. I saw the fat pictures, and I could still tell it was him so obviously he didn't look completely different. But there was a difference. A cute/nice/attractive face is subjective, and I'm just saying that in my experience, I don't often come across faces that I find attractive that are attached to bodies that I find unattractive. If the face is good, usually all else is good.
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