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I went to the gym regularly around 7 p.m. Wednesdays and there was this guy there who kept looking at me for the longest period. Whenever I came close to him, he would get really nervous. One day, he finally came over and talked to me and implied that he was interested. I started to talk about my boyfriend. I did find him attractive, but didn't know how to react to him as I did have a BF.
After that event, I never saw the guy again. At least not for a while. I actually missed him and was looking forward to seeing him, but each time I saw him, he would quickly disappear. For example, we both saw each other at the gym at 5:00 on a Monday once, and then I would try to bump into him by going to the gym next monday at 5:00, but then he wouldn't be there. I saw him again 6:00 sunday. He didn't see me, but I saw him. He kept going to the gym 6:00 Sundays for a while until he finally saw me. After that, he again disappeared.
Why would someone go out of their way to change schedules just to avoid someone?
I hate to tell you this, but the world doesnt revolve around you and strangers dont change their schedules because of you. They do it because of THEIR LIFE.
"I kinda liked this girl at the gym. She immediately told me she has a boyfriend so I figured that is my cue to leave. Ever since then she has been following me around. Every where I look she is there. This is creeping me out."
How dare this guy go to the gym at different times than you without consulting you, what an inconsiderate jerk! You should just forget about him, I'm sure you can do so much better.
He wanted to flirt with you and showed interest. You told him you have a boyfriend which created a boundary thou shalt not cross, so he is respecting that boundary is all, like a gentleman should. Feel free to let him know you broke up with your boyfriend next time you see him.
He's probably of low esteem guy who got a chance with you; but you must have repelled with the bf stuff;he might have taken it too personally; having issues;shred way to find out is to talk to him; this sounds too desperate esp with you having a bf
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