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Old 07-22-2015, 08:10 PM
 
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A Mother who doesnt have custody of her kids and is an alcoholic does not sound like a good mate. You should be glad to be rid of these men if they dont have any better sense than hooking up with an addict who lost her kids.
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Old 07-22-2015, 08:12 PM
 
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Well, don't you think that the kind of men that you go for might be your answer as to why they go for trashy women?
Yes, I'm sure there is a connection. I am trying to "date against type" this time. I always take things slow, I will have to move even slower I think so I can really feel things out.
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Old 07-22-2015, 08:13 PM
 
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A Mother who doesnt have custody of her kids and is an alcoholic does not sound like a good mate. You should be glad to be rid of these men if they dont have any better sense than hooking up with an addict who lost her kids.
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Old 07-22-2015, 08:15 PM
 
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Hygiene I hear you. That's gross when people don't wash properly. If they cheated on you, they will cheat on them. Once a cheater always a cheater.
Yes, it is about them, not me. I'm not perfect I know. But I am faithful. Smelled like feet and drugs. Come on I may not be better, but I hope I smell better lol
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Old 07-22-2015, 08:18 PM
 
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Unfortunately, we do not control who we find attractive. Im not sure why any adult would think we do. However, we can make rational decisions as far as getting involved with that person. Ultimately, things are never black and white. There arent many who are only good or bad. We are all both.
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Old 07-22-2015, 08:19 PM
 
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Lol, men "deal" with me, they want to deal with me but somehow I have chosen really poorly the last couple boyfriends. One smart ass thing the recent one said stands out in my mind, as well as something the other said both very early on. But even now I don't think that was enough to jump to a conclusion. Still if I hear insecure or jerky things, I will pay close attention to a pattern in the future.

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Old 07-22-2015, 08:21 PM
 
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Unfortunately, we do not control who we find attractive. Im not sure why any adult would think we do. However, we can make rational decisions as far as getting involved with that person. Ultimately, things are never black and white. There arent many who are only good or bad. We are all both.
Yes we are mostly both. True, we are attracted to what we're attracted to but I will do my best to control it and choose wiser. The two recent relationships just stupid.
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Old 07-22-2015, 08:23 PM
 
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Fair enough. I just saw the bad boy/trashy women comment and I think that is pretty spot on LOL. Main point being is that why play games on this side, when you have a winner on the other side.
True, it's just that people's opinion of what a winner is varies. People have to listen to their own voice. Good character is good character though.
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Old 07-22-2015, 08:25 PM
 
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Yes we are mostly both. True, we are attracted to what we're attracted to but I will do my best to control it and choose wiser. The two recent relationships just stupid.
Who cares, its a learning experience and youre that much better for it. I think next guy you choose, will be great for you.
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Old 07-22-2015, 08:26 PM
 
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Who cares, its a learning experience and youre that much better for it. I think next guy you choose, will be great for you.
Thank you
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