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Yes and no, monogamy is kinda overrated but we would have to come to a mutual agreement. I'd have to get along well with the girlfriend. I wouldn't sneak around. Also I'd have to really be into the guy (although I have to be into the guy to have sex gf or no gf) However it sounds like in your case OP that isn't what it was. Dishonesty is not my thing.
Now a married guy that's an area I would rather not touch as well.
I would never knowingly do that to another guy. Never. I couldn't live with myself. [Mod cut.] I have a personal code of ethics that I adhere to. Furthermore, not only is knowingly nailing another guy's wife or girlfriend morally reprehensible, it's also a good way to get your brains blown out. So yeah, no thanks.
Last edited by PJSaturn; 08-31-2015 at 09:12 AM..
Reason: Gender bashing.
I always thought that I would if I really liked her (or hated the guy lol), but I did sleep with a girl that had a serious boyfriend (I didn't know until later) and I still feel terrible about it after 2 years. Wasn't my fault in any way, but now I do a bit more digging if I'm going to be heading home with a girl I've recently met.
I would seriously consider it, although in the end I probably wouldn't do it. And the only reason why I'd consider it is that if you are attracted to someone else enough to cheat, it means you are not that much into your official partner anyway. A lot of people stay in marriages/relationships because they are too chicken to leave.
No. If they'll cheat WITH you, they'll cheat ON you (that's to say if your fling led to a relationship).
And even if it was just a one-time thing, no, because it's really bad karma. It's selfish because even though the other person is telling you how unhappy they are in their current relationship, there are always two sides and you don't know how your actions might affect the people involved.
This happen long ago to me I met someone on a college campus and she was an older woman but even thou she had a boyfriend we eventually slept together and did it. I personally don't regret since Im single I can do what I want.
Well not THAT is a moral compass. How is that mirror treating you.
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We got along very well and she tells me she liked me better than her current boyfriend althou a couples days after sleeping with each she just stop texting so whatever it was fun while it lasted. I never heard from her after I went to her house party but it was fun. She does a lot of things without bringing her boyfriend as far as I know I usually don't really like getting involved with someone who had a boyfriend but I had no idea what was her problem
So would you sleep with someone knowing they had a boyfriend or girlfriend?
No. I have a mirror. It shows me who I am every morning.
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