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[quote=Rooknpopcrn1;41006041]Ok ask that happy couple do they have fights at home because the husband didn't clean the bathroom after himself or didn't do the dishes last night. That couple will obviously not tell you about their arguments[/
So you are afraid some woman is going to trick you into cleaning the bathroom after yourself?
Ok ask that happy couple do they have fights at home because the husband didn't clean the bathroom after himself or didn't do the dishes last night. That couple will obviously not tell you about their arguments[/
So you are afraid some woman is going to trick you into cleaning the bathroom after yourself?
No I clean up after myself but a lot of couples argue over any little thing but they are afraid to broadcast their arguments in public and just keep that smiling face telling everything is just dandy
A good marriage has benefits for the guy. Good is the key word. A marriage that involves frequent sex, pleasant companionship/friendship, a reduction in the household management burden, etc. is one that will benefit a man.
A sexless marriage with a lot of fighting and an unpleasant divorce settlement will not benefit a man.
I work out daily, play in competitive sports leagues, eat properly, have plenty of friends, and I want absolutely nothing to do with marriage. Does for some reason the fact that I want absolutely nothing to do with modern women and marriage trump the fact that I live a healthy lifestyle? Thus, Im going to die soon because I have no wife? I'm calling b.s. on that article.
Stay single. There is absolutely no benefit whatsoever for men to get married these days.
I don't know and this is very cloudy of people saying that marriage is wonderful for a guy. I have co workers who tell me that marriage is not a bed of roses. Sure you hear about communicating to make it work but not always does it work. The wife always wins. She makes the husband side more with her parents than his. And the only reason why guys are stuck after they get married is that they will for sure hit financial crises in the event the marriage goes bad. He is completely forced to do whatever the wife wants.So what my co workers or anywhere I worked that marriage doesn't benefi lt the guy is absolutely true. The couple just doesn't broadcast their home life in public and then that is why you see it that it looks like a couple is happy in which they really aren't
Who tells this stuff. What you are describing is a dysfunctional marriage. I couldn't imagine better reasons TO divorce.
A marriage is about communication AND compromise. If one person is the control freak and brow beats bullies forces the other person into doing things it may last a while but eventually falls apart.
I've been married for almost 20 years. Not one time has my wife forced me to do something I wasn't going to do. Sure the "we have to go to my friends party I know you hate it but can you please wear nice clothes, stop dragging your knuckles and leave the club at home and please speak in syllables not grunts argument comes in play, but if there is some thing I'm not going to do I'm not gonna do it.
And if she wants to divorce me fine. I rather be divorced than in a forced one sided or dysfunctional marriage.
A good marriage has benefits for the guy. Good is the key word. A marriage that involves frequent sex, pleasant companionship/friendship, a reduction in the household management burden, etc. is one that will benefit a man.
A sexless marriage with a lot of fighting and an unpleasant divorce settlement will not benefit a man.
Yes good is they key word. But very rare in marriages today. Remember people don't broadcast their home life in public or in the media. If that were to happen that would be the end for marriage
Well there are some women out there who trick the guy into marrying them. They tell them that it is going to be a great life with them. Women really know how to trap a guy for that . And guys don't really see the whole complete picture. They sometimes act like a kid running to the Christmas tree to open presents on Christmas Day and then find nothing but a lump of coal in the beautifully gifted box
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I work out daily, play in competitive sports leagues, eat properly, have plenty of friends, and I want absolutely nothing to do with marriage. Does for some reason the fact that I want absolutely nothing to do with modern women and marriage trump the fact that I live a healthy lifestyle? Thus, Im going to die soon because I have no wife? I'm calling b.s. on that article.
Stay single. There is absolutely no benefit whatsoever for men to get married these days.
very true as i said earlier it is up to the individual to keep himself healthy. I have seen couples completely let themselves go after marriage and even more so when kids come because kids become a high priority
Some posters don't see some truth to the reality of marriage that it is a major risk and there are no Garuantees with it
No you don't care.
You are probably guy who very unhappy with yourself.
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