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Old 09-02-2015, 11:51 AM
 
Location: Seattle
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Most of us have those FB "friends" who air all their issues on FB, and most of us find it annoying/classless. IMO the more they do this, the worse they look. I'd just stand back and let her embarrass herself.
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Old 09-02-2015, 12:01 PM
 
Location: My House
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Save all of it and show it to your lawyer.
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Old 09-02-2015, 01:42 PM
 
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welcome to social media.

FB will be able to take posts down that specifically mention you if you ask them not to include you. this won't prevent her from mentioning situations or circumstances without names attached however.

FB realizes it's a little more than gossiping when something is posted. It doesn't "just" go away.
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Old 09-02-2015, 01:51 PM
 
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Most of us have those FB "friends" who air all their issues on FB, and most of us find it annoying/classless. IMO the more they do this, the worse they look. I'd just stand back and let her embarrass herself.
Exactly, her airing this stuff isn't making anybody but her look bad. The only thing that looks bad on you is that you married an annoying person.
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Old 09-02-2015, 01:55 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Exactly, her airing this stuff isn't making anybody but her look bad. The only thing that looks bad on you is that you married an annoying person.
I agree.

Though some people might want to disassociate from him to get away from any semblance of drama.

I agree with everyone who said to take pictures and then go directly to an attorney. To see what your options are.
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Old 09-02-2015, 02:01 PM
 
Location: New Mexico via Ohio via Indiana
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welcome to social media.

FB will be able to take posts down that specifically mention you if you ask them not to include you. this won't prevent her from mentioning situations or circumstances without names attached however.

FB realizes it's a little more than gossiping when something is posted. It doesn't "just" go away.
I am mentioned by first name in a few of the posts; the rest is implied.
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Old 09-02-2015, 03:21 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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I would contact Facebook - nothing to lose there, at least try.
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Old 09-02-2015, 03:26 PM
 
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I am mentioned by first name in a few of the posts; the rest is implied.
Realistically speaking, no one's reading it.

Or if they are reading it, they don't care.

Maybe just cut her out of your life entirely.

At the end of the day, she can stand on a street corner and yell out every detail of her marriage, if she chooses.

She's the one it looks bad for.
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Old 09-02-2015, 03:28 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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So your going on a public forum to complain about your wife going on a public forum to complain....



I would think that if the two of you are to a point where the other won't delete your trash talk on the internet about each other, then FB is going to be the least of your concerns.
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Old 09-02-2015, 03:50 PM
 
Location: New Mexico via Ohio via Indiana
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So your going on a public forum to complain about your wife going on a public forum to complain....



I would think that if the two of you are to a point where the other won't delete your trash talk on the internet about each other, then FB is going to be the least of your concerns.
Believe me, I saw the irony as well.
But C-D forum is way confidential. Looking at my posts one would be hard pressed to identify me. No pics, no city address.
And Facebook, there's no doubt. It's even my name and pictures for crying out loud. But yeah, some irony. But none that would not make me post this question super-anonymously incognito on C-D.
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