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I thinks it's a bad idea considering your age. I'd say wait till 30 and if you haven't had sex yet in a relationship or fwb just go for it.
Seeing so many threads about virgin guys makes me wish they would just all go to see an escort to get their sexual frustrations over with. Not everyone can be socially competent.
And that's the crux of the matter. It's the lack of social competence. Paying a prostitute for an orgasm isn't going to help him approach women he doesn't need to pay for.
Don't do it, man. Go out on a few dates instead. Here is a suggestion that I pretty much guarantee will work provided you are clean, smell good, dressed in clothes that match and aren't wrinkled, and don't have bad breath:
Approach 50 random woman and ask that out on dates. I suggest saying something like the following: "you are really good looking. Want to go on a date?"
At least one will say yes, and most likely several. This can be done anywhere- at the gym, at a convenience store, at a bar, at work, it really doesn't matter. Avoid woman that have wedding rings, avoid the 10s (women that look like models), and try to stay 5 years either way within your age group.
Nothing develops social skills like dating, either. It can also be a lot of fun.
They're not going to teach him anything though, nor spend a lot of time with him. If there's a language barrier too, it won't do a thing to help him translate into meeting girls in this country nor increasing his confidence to know what to do with a girl. If anything I would suggest Nevada, a place like the Bunny Ranch he could go in saying he wants to learn the ropes. There is no need to leave the country though IMO. I think the scene there would make him even more removed from normal society/normalcy for a kid his age, when he really just wants to feel a part of it.
Couldn't disagree more. The legal brothels in NV would be a horrible first time experience. They are overpriced, sleazy, and offer absolutely horrible service. Plenty of escort agencies in Vegas that would be far better, but as I stated in my previous post, since he has zero experience, he wouldn't know how to navigate the scene and will likely end up having a bad time. So again, I stress that he should just fly somewhere where the scene is userfriendly. If language barrier is a concern in Thailand (it's not, btw), then go to Angeles City, Philippines. Much better english. Instead of limiting your experience with one possibly terrible experience in the US, go all out at get like 7 chicks at the same time overseas.
Couldn't disagree more. The legal brothels in NV would be a horrible first time experience. They are overpriced, sleazy, and offer absolutely horrible service. Plenty of escort agencies in Vegas that would be far better, but as I stated in my previous post, since he has zero experience, he wouldn't know how to navigate the scene and will likely end up having a bad time. So again, I stress that he should just fly somewhere where the scene is userfriendly. If language barrier is a concern in Thailand (it's not, btw), then go to Angeles City, Philippines. Much better english. Instead of limiting your experience with one possibly terrible experience in the US, go all out at get like 7 chicks at the same time overseas.
Paying for sex to me seems like an act of extreme desperation. Flying all the way to the Philippines to lose your virginity takes it to a whole new level.
Approach 50 random woman and ask that out on dates. I suggest saying something like the following: "you are really good looking. Want to go on a date?"
Nothing develops social skills like dating, either. It can also be a lot of fun.
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Originally Posted by Casterer
I'm not interested in a serious committed relationship, just a friends with benefits.
The OP isn't asking whether or not prostitution is a substitution for dating. Misleading a woman to get them into bed on the false pretense of a possibility of a relationship is pretty bad in of itself.
And that's the crux of the matter. It's the lack of social competence. Paying a prostitute for an orgasm isn't going to help him approach women he doesn't need to pay for.
He won't be paying for an orgasm, he'll be paying so he knows in his mind he is no longer a virgin and won't be terrified when he does meet a girl. IMO that confidence can be a big help. The older he gets, the harder it will get to tell girls he's a virgin, he might as well do something about it.
Couldn't disagree more. The legal brothels in NV would be a horrible first time experience. They are overpriced, sleazy, and offer absolutely horrible service. Plenty of escort agencies in Vegas that would be far better, but as I stated in my previous post, since he has zero experience, he wouldn't know how to navigate the scene and will likely end up having a bad time. So again, I stress that he should just fly somewhere where the scene is userfriendly. If language barrier is a concern in Thailand (it's not, btw), then go to Angeles City, Philippines. Much better english. Instead of limiting your experience with one possibly terrible experience in the US, go all out at get like 7 chicks at the same time overseas.
While I agree that places like that are great (cost is low too) for the "tourist", I never found any of them the slightest bit attractive (meaning the service not the women). Perhaps it is the areas of the Philippines I have visited but I would never compare that experience with a good escort service.... more akin to the bar girls that roam our casinos.
Couldn't disagree more. The legal brothels in NV would be a horrible first time experience. They are overpriced, sleazy, and offer absolutely horrible service. Plenty of escort agencies in Vegas that would be far better, but as I stated in my previous post, since he has zero experience, he wouldn't know how to navigate the scene and will likely end up having a bad time. So again, I stress that he should just fly somewhere where the scene is userfriendly. If language barrier is a concern in Thailand (it's not, btw), then go to Angeles City, Philippines. Much better english. Instead of limiting your experience with one possibly terrible experience in the US, go all out at get like 7 chicks at the same time overseas.
Those girls are going to take the time to teach him? I don't think he needs just a good time, he needs a patient teacher, and I know this is possible here, not sure about how that would work overseas.
And that's the crux of the matter. It's the lack of social competence. Paying a prostitute for an orgasm isn't going to help him approach women he doesn't need to pay for.
Its not the actually orgasm the OP is seeking (he masturbates). Its to resolve the lack of familiarity with being sexual with an actual woman.
You don't need to be over smart about sex related issue. With the passage of time everything will be clear to you. Enjoy!
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