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Old 10-02-2015, 09:33 PM
 
Location: Ames, Iowa
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Serious question for women out there: What do you have to offer me? Sorry, in my area, the average woman has very little to offer. I would imagine the male version of these women have very little to offer as well.

So, with that being said. Why would I want to be with you? How would you make my life better? How would you bring value to my life rather than becoming an instant liability?
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Old 10-02-2015, 09:34 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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So, with that being said. ... How would you make my life better? How would you bring value to my life rather than becoming an instant liability?
These questions = the exact opposite of how to approach a relationship.

UR doing it wrong.
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Old 10-02-2015, 09:37 PM
 
Location: Ames, Iowa
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These questions = the exact opposite of how to approach a relationship.

UR doing it wrong.
Please, enlighten me with your wisdom then!
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Old 10-02-2015, 09:39 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Please, enlighten me with your wisdom then!
If you're almost 40 and no one has ever told you this before, I'm not gonna make a dent.
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Old 10-02-2015, 09:41 PM
 
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These questions = the exact opposite of how to approach a relationship.

UR doing it wrong.
/\ This!
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Old 10-02-2015, 09:44 PM
 
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I have absolutely nothing to offer you, bless your heart.
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Old 10-02-2015, 09:46 PM
 
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I can offer you leftover Red Beans and Rice, for the record though even if I was not married all I would ever offer you is leftover Red Beans and Rice.
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Old 10-02-2015, 09:46 PM
 
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Before you ask those questions, I assume that you bring a lot to the table. Things such as relationship skills honed from years of experience. The ability to treat others as equals, having respect for their feelings etc...What many don't seem to get, is the fact that looks, career, financial stability are all great attributes, but its much more than that....

I would like to know when you would ask those questions. Would it be before the first date? After a month? I honestly hope you don't literally ask those questions. I hope you don't approach all women in that fashion. Maybe getting to know a woman, and finding out if being with you would inspire her to be everything you want. Instead of demanding it from the get go, before she even knows if she even likes you.
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Old 10-02-2015, 09:47 PM
 
Location: Ames, Iowa
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I have absolutely nothing to offer you, bless your heart.
I appreciate your honesty. So if I met you somewhere and we started dating, you would become an instant liability. Why would I want to be with you?
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Old 10-02-2015, 09:49 PM
 
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I appreciate your honesty. So if I met you somewhere and we started dating, you would become an instant liability. Why would I want to be with you?
We would not start dating, bless your heart.
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