Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
41,936 posts, read 36,974,024 times
Reputation: 40635
Advertisements
Quote:
Originally Posted by Mr Weebly
There's nothing about sex that is unappealing. It's all positive. You get an orgasm, you get exercise, and you get to bond. It's win win.
Reading this again: mind blown. There is lots of sex out there that is unappealing. Shoot, a good chunk of sex out there with some people isn't worth taking ones clothes off for.
There are three more... and that is just the start of the list.
Quote:
Originally Posted by Hivemind31
Popped in to say this, and the list isn't just things that fault the OP, either. When I'm not in the mood, the #1 reason for it is stress.
Following up on the thread makes it seem like there's more to it than that, but at face value, there are a LOT of reasons why someone may not want to get down.
^^ These.
Plus, one reason that no one ever seems to consider when it comes to women not wanting sex, is that perhaps she simply no longer sexually desires her husband. Not necessarily because she no longer finds him physically attractive, but because there are other things going on in the relationship, perhaps for years, that have killed it for her where HE is concerned.
Not saying that's what's going on in the OP's situation, but it's something to consider.
Having read the few close-minded and uninformative posts of the OP, it's a no-brainer. Wife is planning her escape - marriage to that guy would be a living hell. I wouldn't be "in the mood" either.
ETA: Besides, how serious can you take any posts from someone who calls himself "Mr. Weebly..."
No it's none of those. I've considered those but none of them are realistic possibilities. It's just the three that I listed. I think she has a sexual dysfunction because she's hardly ever in the mood. That's by far the most likely.
Another poster who asks for input yet rejects everyone's responses. Maybe your personality has something to do with her lack of desire. Don't be so closed minded and dismissive. Have her see a doctor to see if she's physically okay if you're so sure she has a sexual dysfunction. Maybe they'll confirm it, maybe not but at least you'll know.
I consider it marriage and just deal with it. When she wants some, she can initiate. I am always in the mood, even if I am not, if that even makes sense. So instead of getting turned down just wait. Take care of business yourself and just go with it.
Hmmm... It sounds hormonal in nature. When is the last time she was checked?
Does she have depression of any kind?
What about children. Do you have them? If so, maybe her vagina never fully recovered. I've heard that women (especially with more than one vaginal birth) can lose sensation, etc. down below. And along with that, if you aren't well endowed, can have issues with satisfaction because of the size increase of her post birth vagina.
I consider it marriage and just deal with it. When she wants some, she can initiate. I am always in the mood, even if I am not, if that even makes sense. So instead of getting turned down just wait. Take care of business yourself and just go with it.
Nice attitude. This is how I feel about going to Panda Express...I'm always up for it!
I don't know why she's not trying. No idea. I always initiate but she just says nope, not in the mood.
And when you say you initiate, what form does that take? Kissing her on the neck and giving her a shoulder massage? Groping her as she's doing the dishes?
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.
Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
It sounds hormonal in nature. When is the last time she was checked? 
