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Hi, I am a 27-year-old bisexual guy who has always been very tall and large overall - right now I am 6'8 and with a very significant muscular build ("beefy", basically) - and at my local gay club this seems to be very popular among the "petite" guys.
Anyway, these last coupe weekends there has been a fairly shy guy like this at that place - he is very small compared to me, probably only 5'6 or so and sort of fragile-looking (mostly because he is slender and looks light-weight, plus his shy behaviour) - who has shown me strange signals.
Whenever I have appeared anywhere near him, I have noticed him cast an eye on me multiple times, and every time I catch him doing it he will look down to the floor and look ashamed.
Sometimes he will also lock eyes on me in a rather absent-minded way and gaze at me with large curious eyes, until he realizes that I see it, and then he immediately looks down again, sometimes with a soft shameful smile.
However, I have also noticed that he can often look rather scared or uneasy when he makes eye contact with me;
I once returned his gaze and was giving him a thoughtful look, and his eyes were sort of like the eyes of a scared puppy - innocent and thoughtful, almost like he was thinking for himself "please, please don't hurt me...", but they also seemed to express longing.
Then he looked down again, and looked shy and shameful.
Another thing that he has done maybe twice is that when I have been sitting alone somewhere, he has walked up in front of me some distance away, then stood and shifted his weight on one leg for a while, almost as if he tried to give me a look at his ass or something - at least, that's what it seems like since he has been standing that way in front of me a couple times for no real reason.
How do you think I should handle this?
He seems to be really intimidated by me, but he keeps looking at me and acts like this when he sees me.
Yeah, what do you WANT to happen? That will affect my suggestions.
I think he is pretty cute actually, so I have considered approaching him myself next time.
I was mostly wondering how I could handle all of this the best way, since he seems so careful and intimidated around me all the time.
I sometimes feel like I will have to talk to him in a soft sugar-sweet voice or something.
I think he is pretty cute actually, so I have considered approaching him myself next time.
I was mostly wondering how I could handle all of this the best way, since he seems so careful and intimidated around me all the time.
I sometimes feel like I will have to talk to him in a soft sugar-sweet voice or something.
Jokes and my own gross fantasies aside, I think approaching him will a long way toward solving his shyness. He may be intimidated now, but making him feel at ease just by saying hello will get him to open up, I'll bet.
Jokes and my own gross fantasies aside, I think approaching him will a long way toward solving his shyness. He may be intimidated now, but making him feel at ease just by saying hello will get him to open up, I'll bet.
Yes, perhaps so.
I will probably try talking to him next time I see him, and make sure that I am not dangerous.
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