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I am 28 and was with an abusive man for over a year, but within the last 3 months he stepped up his abuse. Before he may push and shove and yell but in the last 3 months he started actually hitting/punching me, violently shoving me into walls etc. Well at one point he hit me so hard he broke my nose and gave me a concussion which I managed to call the cops and he was arrested but was released THE NEXT DAY! It's really insane how little our justice system actually gives a damn about protecting women, huh? If they really wanted to any man arrested hitting/beating a woman would get instant 10+ years of hard labor, but that requires men and cops actually giving a damn about women which they don't.
So knowing my ex (I broke up with him immediately after) won't get the shame and ridicule any man that hurts a woman deserve I came up with a plan to. Now we live in a small town where everyone knows everyone's business, and is incredibly easy to get people to believe something even if it's not true.
So what I started doing is spreading the idea that my ex was a white supremacist and a member of the KKK. Boy, it didn't take long at all before he started being shunned. He ended up losing his job, denied service, and even once as he was walking out of a bar got beat by 3 men, he could barely walk and his face was seriously messed up.
I actually called him at his apartment laughing telling him he deserves everything. He demanded I tell the truth but I told him I hope he dies an excruciating death by brain cancer. He lost his apartment soon after and moved to another town but I am sure word will spread there as well. Now I'm sure those will be saying even for what he did he didn't deserve it, but I disagree. Had he actually been given an actual punishment I wouldn't have. And don't get me wrong, I abhore the KKK and the like as well, but I think it's egregious and says a lot about how our society truly values women that a man that people think is a white supremacist/KKK member is worse than a man that hits/beats a woman.
I don't feel the least bit bad about it, and I would throw a party if I found out he had some cancer that makes him die a slow excruciating death.
I'm not sure where you live, but in most places he would be released the next day only if he posted bail. Then, at a later date, he would have a hearing to determine if there would be a trial. If he was found to be guilty of the charge, or entered a guilty, he would receive sentencing then. This is generally how the justice system works.
I am 28 and was with an abusive man for over a year, but within the last 3 months he stepped up his abuse. Before he may push and shove and yell but in the last 3 months he started actually hitting/punching me, violently shoving me into walls etc. Well at one point he hit me so hard he broke my nose and gave me a concussion which I managed to call the cops and he was arrested but was released THE NEXT DAY! It's really insane how little our justice system actually gives a damn about protecting women, huh? If they really wanted to any man arrested hitting/beating a woman would get instant 10+ years of hard labor, but that requires men and cops actually giving a damn about women which they don't.
we have this thing in this country called due process, you cant just toss a person into jail for long periods of time on a whim. sorry that you dont want to follow this due process, but justice takes time.
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So knowing my ex (I broke up with him immediately after) won't get the shame and ridicule any man that hurts a woman deserve I came up with a plan to. Now we live in a small town where everyone knows everyone's business, and is incredibly easy to get people to believe something even if it's not true.
So what I started doing is spreading the idea that my ex was a white supremacist and a member of the KKK. Boy, it didn't take long at all before he started being shunned. He ended up losing his job, denied service, and even once as he was walking out of a bar got beat by 3 men, he could barely walk and his face was seriously messed up.
I actually called him at his apartment laughing telling him he deserves everything. He demanded I tell the truth but I told him I hope he dies an excruciating death by brain cancer. He lost his apartment soon after and moved to another town but I am sure word will spread there as well. Now I'm sure those will be saying even for what he did he didn't deserve it, but I disagree. Had he actually been given an actual punishment I wouldn't have. And don't get me wrong, I abhore the KKK and the like as well, but I think it's egregious and says a lot about how our society truly values women that a man that people think is a white supremacist/KKK member is worse than a man that hits/beats a woman.
I don't feel the least bit bad about it, and I would throw a party if I found out he had some cancer that makes him die a slow excruciating death.
so in other words you stooped to his level to get back at him, in fact you went below his level by lying about him. real classy, i hope you and i never have a relationship.
I am 28 and was with an abusive man for over a year, but within the last 3 months he stepped up his abuse. Before he may push and shove and yell but in the last 3 months he started actually hitting/punching me, violently shoving me into walls etc. Well at one point he hit me so hard he broke my nose and gave me a concussion which I managed to call the cops and he was arrested but was released THE NEXT DAY! It's really insane how little our justice system actually gives a damn about protecting women, huh? If they really wanted to any man arrested hitting/beating a woman would get instant 10+ years of hard labor, but that requires men and cops actually giving a damn about women which they don't.
So knowing my ex (I broke up with him immediately after) won't get the shame and ridicule any man that hurts a woman deserve I came up with a plan to. Now we live in a small town where everyone knows everyone's business, and is incredibly easy to get people to believe something even if it's not true.
So what I started doing is spreading the idea that my ex was a white supremacist and a member of the KKK. Boy, it didn't take long at all before he started being shunned. He ended up losing his job, denied service, and even once as he was walking out of a bar got beat by 3 men, he could barely walk and his face was seriously messed up.
I actually called him at his apartment laughing telling him he deserves everything. He demanded I tell the truth but I told him I hope he dies an excruciating death by brain cancer. He lost his apartment soon after and moved to another town but I am sure word will spread there as well. Now I'm sure those will be saying even for what he did he didn't deserve it, but I disagree. Had he actually been given an actual punishment I wouldn't have. And don't get me wrong, I abhore the KKK and the like as well, but I think it's egregious and says a lot about how our society truly values women that a man that people think is a white supremacist/KKK member is worse than a man that hits/beats a woman.
I don't feel the least bit bad about it, and I would throw a party if I found out he had some cancer that makes him die a slow excruciating death.
Okay so you don't feel bad about what you did. What was thew point of this thread again?
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