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Old 10-28-2015, 12:22 PM
 
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I think it was the condom that made it hurt lol

Jeez... you guys like to jump to conclusions...

No, he didn't delete his Tinder. I may ask him why in person but it seems inconsequential since he has been messaging me to meet like he said he would before we slept together...
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Old 10-28-2015, 12:38 PM
 
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Based on this, and how he has treated you since:

He was an aggressor in the sexual experience you had with him, which could meet the legal criteria for date rape.

I would consider having tho man brought to justice if I were you.
Wait, WHAT???

No...

Probably he's big(er) than she would like, or she's just ultra tight, or he doesnt know what the hell he's doing, probably not rape, jeez
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Old 10-28-2015, 12:38 PM
 
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I think it was the condom that made it hurt lol

Jeez... you guys like to jump to conclusions...

No, he didn't delete his Tinder. I may ask him why in person but it seems inconsequential since he has been messaging me to meet like he said he would before we slept together...
how do u know he didnt delete his tinder if he unmatched u?
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Old 10-28-2015, 12:59 PM
 
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how do u know he didnt delete his tinder if he unmatched u?
Because I deleted my Tinder, went back on and found him again. I don't feel so bad anymore after he contacted me by text so let's just drop this.
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Old 10-28-2015, 01:14 PM
 
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I just hooked up with a guy on Tinder and he unmatched me the next day.
It's no different than a one-night stand.

He nailed it, didn't care for it, and won't be back.
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Old 10-28-2015, 02:10 PM
 
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Because I deleted my Tinder, went back on and found him again. I don't feel so bad anymore after he contacted me by text so let's just drop this.
so he unmatched u so u wouldnt know that he is actively looking for other girls while he "dates" you... I would have screen shot the image of his profile on it, and sent it to him.....

we can drop the subject but u need to stop being so naive
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Old 10-28-2015, 04:18 PM
 
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so he unmatched u so u wouldnt know that he is actively looking for other girls while he "dates" you... I would have screen shot the image of his profile on it, and sent it to him.....

we can drop the subject but u need to stop being so naive
How do you know I'm not looking for other guys?

Next time I just have to unmatch first before they get to it.

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Old 10-28-2015, 06:47 PM
 
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Guess not. I deleted mine. Guys always complain about girls not putting out. If I like someone I'll put out pretty early because if I don't do it then it's probably not going to happen. I don't like that I get punished for putting out early. What if the sex is bad? Then at least you know right away. Oh well, the sex wasn't that great and he's a jerk, so at least I know and it's still early.
I don't think you are being punished for putting out early.....from your admission, it wasn't any good, so no loss. You will have the guys who will bail out...guys are sensitive, and flee if they do something that's shady. Too much friction probably made him finish way sooner than he would like to brag about, so he ditched you instead of facing the facts....Porn man...guy who brutallizes your cervix, unaware of your pain.....did you a favor. Oh well, at least you didn't waste a month or two to find out he was a dick...unlike some.
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Old 10-28-2015, 07:46 PM
 
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It's no different than a one-night stand.

He nailed it, didn't care for it, and won't be back.
He contacted her back. Read the entire thread.
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Old 10-28-2015, 07:47 PM
 
Location: TN
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I don't think you are being punished for putting out early.....from your admission, it wasn't any good, so no loss. You will have the guys who will bail out...guys are sensitive, and flee if they do something that's shady. Too much friction probably made him finish way sooner than he would like to brag about, so he ditched you instead of facing the facts....Porn man...guy who brutallizes your cervix, unaware of your pain.....did you a favor. Oh well, at least you didn't waste a month or two to find out he was a dick...unlike some.
He's contacted her since. She is still interested. She said she isn't upset anymore . Thread done.
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