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Old 11-01-2015, 12:59 PM
 
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Maybe also stop viewing it as a tournament?

Decent women don't appreciate it when they detect that you have some kind of game going on.

I also sincerely doubt that men who are nice, hardworking, and relatively attractive don't have any women interested in them. Stop just looking for supermodels/hotties and look for someone who is attractive as well as kind.
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Old 11-01-2015, 12:59 PM
 
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I'd say most of it has to do with luck and being in the right place at the right time. Which is awful to leave your future dating up to luck, but that's how it works.

Yeah being as well-rounded helps. Having hobbies that get you out in public helps too. And having an amazing personality will make up for your hair line and other physical problems. Unfortunately, most will over look you just because of those things you mentioned. Truth sucks but that's life.
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Old 11-01-2015, 01:01 PM
 
Location: Queens, NY
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Maybe also stop viewing it as a tournament?

Decent women don't appreciate it when they detect that you have some kind of game going on.

I also sincerely doubt that men who are nice, hardworking, and relatively attractive don't have any women interested in them. Stop just looking for supermodels/hotties and look for someone who is attractive as well as kind.
In my case, I'm all that, and I haven't able to get a woman romantically interested in me for whatever reason. I also don't just go looking for the supermodels/hotties.

It's why I say it involves a lot of luck.
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Old 11-01-2015, 01:04 PM
 
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In my case, I'm all that, and I haven't able to get a woman romantically interested in me for whatever reason. I also don't just go looking for the supermodels/hotties.

It's why I say it involves a lot of luck.
Do you have contact with a lot of women?

I guarantee at least one of them is interesting in you.
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Old 11-01-2015, 01:07 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Do you have contact with a lot of women?

I guarantee at least one of them is interesting in you.
His secretary stares at his azz.
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Old 11-01-2015, 01:10 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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A lot of it really comes down to luck as well. More than some people are willing to admit.
As someone who busted out on the genetic jackpot, this is true.
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Old 11-01-2015, 01:14 PM
 
Location: Queens, NY
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Do you have contact with a lot of women?

I guarantee at least one of them is interesting in you.
Whenever I have asked out women that seemed interested in me. They either ended up ghosting on me (most of the time), or made excuse after excuse to go out on a date. Same thing with online dating (and what's been happening recently)
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Old 11-01-2015, 01:16 PM
 
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Whenever I have asked out women that seemed interested in me. They either ended up ghosting on me (most of the time), or made excuse after excuse to go out on a date. Same thing with online dating (and what's been happening recently)
So you do have women who have interest, they just end up being a-holes?

That's different than not meeting any women at all, and therefore I would agree that it is largely a matter of luck.
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Old 11-02-2015, 08:01 AM
 
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Stop looking.Then it will find you.
*roll eyes*.
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Old 11-02-2015, 08:05 AM
 
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Maybe also stop viewing it as a tournament?

Decent women don't appreciate it when they detect that you have some kind of game going on.

I also sincerely doubt that men who are nice, hardworking, and relatively attractive don't have any women interested in them. Stop just looking for supermodels/hotties and look for someone who is attractive as well as kind.
The hardest part is finding out which women find you attractive. Women (for the most part) would rather die than make the first move.
It takes a fair amount of experience to detect if a woman is being nice, or if she is interested.
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