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When a guy says he's having trouble with dating, he's always told that he needs to "pull himself up by his boostraps" and become attractive to women, as if it's always possible with enough effort. The way I see it, there's really nothing constructive I can do for making me more attractive. I can't change my most unattractive features (height, hairline, nose) and I already put a lot of effort into the features I can control (e.g. complexion, physique). I'm a notorious hard worker, so if there really was a way of becoming attractive with enough effort, I would be putting in the effort.
Yes - looking good can help. But it doesn't stop there. Try to be the best you that you can be. Go out talk to people - not just women you are interested in. Be comfortable talking to anyone. Try to be as comfortable in your own skin as you can. Go out with friends. The more people you come into contact with and the more comfortable you are, the better your chances are at dating.
Yes - looking good can help. But it doesn't stop there. Try to be the best you that you can be. Go out talk to people - not just women you are interested in. Be comfortable talking to anyone. Try to be as comfortable in your own skin as you can. Go out with friends. The more people you come into contact with and the more comfortable you are, the better your chances are at dating.
Not this guy:
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Originally Posted by Raena77
Stop looking.Then it will find you.
If you stay in your own world and don't interact with others you will get nowhere.
Dating is about interacting. Being a good conversationalist who is interested in others (and not just potential dates), pursuit of hobbies, being responsible and sensitive to others, ambition. Develop yourself in ways other than physical appeal.
A lot of it really comes down to luck as well. More than some people are willing to admit.
The harder you work/try the luckier you get.
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