Lack of sexual experience hard on relationships (dating, woman, loving)
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I'm 29 and until last year I was a virgin. Every guy I meet at my age, wants a woman with more sexual experience than I have. I've been upfront about myself with all the guys I've dated and all said they were ok with dating a virgin. So I met a guy a couple years ago, became good friends, and then started dating, and was ready to go all the way with him. We tried it, didn't go all the way, and it started to become awkward. So we agreed to try again another time. Shortly afterward, he started to avoid me and we stopped dating. But we kept in touch. I continued to date, not finding a the right guy for me. Recently, me and my ex started dating again was still upfront about my virginity. This time we did have sex and I did lose my virginity. Though it was still kinda awkward and whatnot. I don't think he gets that it's going to take some time for me to get more comfortable with my sexuality. But now he seems to be avoiding me again. I don't want to go through all this again. No matter what it seems like my lack of sexual experience just hurts any relationship I try to have. I don't really know what to do at this point.
Well, there's "sex just for the sake of having sex," and there's the type of sex that bonds you with someone you care about. The latter requires real emotional intimacy, which involves trust and comfort, with yourself and your partner.
You will have to work on your self-confidence and also hope to find a person with whom you can develop a loving, trusting relationship. Otherwise, you will have more awkward, default experiences with guys you happen to be hanging out with.
Well, there's "sex just for the sake of having sex," and there's the type of sex that bonds you with someone you care about. The latter requires real emotional intimacy, which involves trust and comfort, with yourself and your partner.
You will have to work on your self-confidence and also hope to find a person with whom you can develop a loving, trusting relationship. Otherwise, you will have more awkward, default experiences with guys you happen to be hanging out with.
That's possible, but I do care about this guy a lot and that's why I decided to lose my virginity to him. We see each other practically every day and I felt like I developed enough of a loving, trusting, relationship with him.
I think, most guys don't mind the inexperience part, but the lack of enthusiasm to learn.
I have a lot of enthusiasm to learn. Ever since we had sex, I have wanted to try it again and again. But now he seems to be avoiding me. So I do have a lot of willingness to try
That's possible, but I do care about this guy a lot and that's why I decided to lose my virginity to him. We see each other practically every day and I felt like I developed enough of a loving, trusting, relationship with him.
But if he's avoiding you... it's likely those feelings are one-sided.
I have a lot of enthusiasm to learn. Ever since we had sex, I have wanted to try it again and again. But now he seems to be avoiding me. So I do have a lot of willingness to try
You don't have to tell them. Also as a woman, it's pretty socially acceptable to just lie there and do nothing during sex. A lot of men like submissive girls. I have never heard of a man complaining about bad sex. For men it's more about the release. Good or bad isn't important. The important thing is we got laid.
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