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Demographics:
41 years old. Has dating experience, hasn't met the right person yet. Was engaged to be married 4 years ago but didn't go through. Have a great career. Makes a good salary. Wants to be a father and loving husband . Takes care of himself. Has good hygiene . Was 340 lbs but went on major diet and lost 65 pounds through hard workout and dieting over 8 months now weights 275. Is active with exercising. Like going out places and doing things. Will women 29 to his age still find him as a great canidate?
Demographics:
41 years old. Has dating experience, hasn't met the right person yet. Was engaged to be married 4 years ago but didn't go through. Have a great career. Makes a good salary. Wants to be a father and loving husband . Takes care of himself. Has good hygiene . Was 340 lbs but went on major diet and lost 65 pounds through hard workout and dieting over 8 months now weights 275. Is active with exercising. Like going out places and doing things. Will women 29 to his age still find him as a great canidate?
Way too little information to speculate. But, anything is possible. However, it must be said, in this great seething mass of humanity, exactly half of which are persons of the opposite (or same) sex, it is impossible to "hasn't met the right person yet." Impossible. So... when people over 30 say this, it is an indication to me that they will never meet the right person. Mainly because they simply do not have the ability to understand that the right person is who they decide is the right person. Assuming of course that someone is there to be considered at all. It is more up to them than it is up to anyone they might meet. And... just saying.. 275 is still pretty big. Works against guys more than it does against women. FWIW
Demographics:
41 years old. Has dating experience, hasn't met the right person yet. Was engaged to be married 4 years ago but didn't go through. Have a great career. Makes a good salary. Wants to be a father and loving husband . Takes care of himself. Has good hygiene . Was 340 lbs but went on major diet and lost 65 pounds through hard workout and dieting over 8 months now weights 275. Is active with exercising. Like going out places and doing things. Will women 29 to his age still find him as a great canidate?
Of course he can find someone. I didn't realize that love had an expiration date.
Way too little information to speculate. But, anything is possible. However, it must be said, in this great seething mass of humanity, exactly half of which are persons of the opposite (or same) sex, it is impossible to "hasn't met the right person yet." Impossible. So... when people over 30 say this, it is an indication to me that they will never meet the right person. Mainly because they simply do not have the ability to understand that the right person is who they decide is the right person. Assuming of course that someone is there to be considered at all. It is more up to them than it is up to anyone they might meet. And... just saying.. 275 is still pretty big. Works against guys more than it does against women. FWIW
Are you suggesting that he make just anyone "the right person" coz that would be ridiculous? Obviously people want someone who is well suited to them so they shouldn't settle for just anyone. Yes they can compromise on some things but not everything.
Demographics:
41 years old. Has dating experience, hasn't met the right person yet. Was engaged to be married 4 years ago but didn't go through. Have a great career. Makes a good salary. Wants to be a father and loving husband . Takes care of himself. Has good hygiene . Was 340 lbs but went on major diet and lost 65 pounds through hard workout and dieting over 8 months now weights 275. Is active with exercising. Like going out places and doing things. Will women 29 to his age still find him as a great canidate?
Nope, 41 y.o. is DEFINITELY TOO OLD to find someone and get married!!!
Way too little information to speculate. But, anything is possible. However, it must be said, in this great seething mass of humanity, exactly half of which are persons of the opposite (or same) sex, it is impossible to "hasn't met the right person yet." Impossible. So... when people over 30 say this, it is an indication to me that they will never meet the right person. Mainly because they simply do not have the ability to understand that the right person is who they decide is the right person. Assuming of course that someone is there to be considered at all. It is more up to them than it is up to anyone they might meet. And... just saying.. 275 is still pretty big. Works against guys more than it does against women. FWIW
Depends on the height and body type, but generally 275 is still pretty big. Still these things take time and dropping weight too quickly isn't good either.
There is definitely still time to fall in love, get married, and start a family. Make yourself the best person you can be, be available and open to love, and start dating. Many of my friends have had great luck with dating websites such as Match.com, etc., but if that's not your speed just get out there and meet people on your own.
Congratulations on the weight loss. I don't know how tall you are, but for most men 275 is still on the big side. Getting to an optimal healthy weight, having good grooming and hygiene, dressing nicely, being of good character, having a good sense of humor, being honest, respectful, responsible, and interesting improves your chances as well. You can do this.
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He can find someone, but he is still a very large man. As long as he isn't hung up on looks/size there is someone out there for him.
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