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Old 11-25-2015, 07:34 AM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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(bolding/underlining mine, especially since multiple apologies don't seem to have been enough, LOL!)

Anyway...

Bwah ha, I half-wonder if you're an ex-boyfriend of mine.

...

I felt like I was sitting with some bickering old biddy licking the lipstick that had smeared onto and above her lips while she squinted down her pince-nez glasses and divided the bill exactly while occasionally glancing up at me suspiciously...just...blargh...are you kidding me?
I can't blame you for breaking it off with a miser like that! How can you possibly have a good time if he spends the date calculating how to proportion the bill!?

I was half kidding with my coffee and bagel comment, although it would have certainly been an acceptable form of apology. Typically, in my relationships I will cover 95%+ of all expenses usually up to the 2nd month or so and start allowing her to pay after that, only if she insists (not just simply asking); apparently with the exception of a beverage here and there!

As for tit and tat... This was WAY off from the start. I accommodated her schedule with the time, I picked an area less than 2 miles where she would be prior to the date (15 miles from where I work/live) and I showed up early. Maybe in addition to all that I should have emptied the contents of my gym bag and covered the wet ground from her car to the door of the building? How foolish of me!
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Old 11-25-2015, 07:36 AM
 
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As for tit and tat... This was WAY off from the start. I accommodated her schedule with the time, I picked an area less than 2 miles where should be prior to the date and I showed up early. Maybe in addition to all that I should have emptied the contents of my gym bag and covered the wet ground from her car to the door of the building? How foolish of me!
People responding that way have their own chips on their shoulders. You did everything right, and with a bit of flair, I might add. I like your style. Good story.
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Old 11-25-2015, 08:11 AM
 
Location: D.C.
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It sounds to me like you did everything right here. I do find it interesting that it was her that showed interest in you and then behaved in this way. On the plus side, at least you didn't invest much time in her.
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Old 11-25-2015, 08:44 AM
 
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Wow what an interesting experience OP!

Good luck next time. Maybe the next girl will be polite and ask you if you would like to supersize your fries with that latte?
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