Did I blow my chances with him by being shy and should I apologise?

[purehuman]

Originally Posted by Cutegeek

I'm really shy with guys/new people so I kept giving short answers and avoiding eye contact with him, and I think he thought I didn't like him or want to speak to him.

I kind of glanced at him when I was about to leave and he looked kind of upset so now I feel really bad. The semester's over so I won't see him again, but I was wondering if I should email him and apologise or just leave it?

Quit worrying about what he thinks...what for???
If he's feeling put out he can go to his GIRLFRIEND for comfort and reassurance.
You owe him nothing...certainly NOT an apology for being the way you are....that seems silly that you would even consider it..........
He's a teacher with a girlfriend....let it go.............let him go, and quit thinking so much about someone who's already taken.

[Cutegeek]

Originally Posted by purehuman

Quit worrying about what he thinks...what for???
If he's feeling put out he can go to his GIRLFRIEND for comfort and reassurance.
You owe him nothing...certainly NOT an apology for being the way you are....that seems silly that you would even consider it..........
He's a teacher with a girlfriend....let it go.............let him go, and quit thinking so much about someone who's already taken.

Fair enough. I wasn't implying that he's going to be heartbroken because I was slightly rude to him, so I highly doubt he's going to need 'comfort and reassurance' ha ha. It's more like in general I'm a pretty polite person and even if I'd acted the same way towards someone I didn't have feelings for, I'd be tempted to apologise. Perhaps that is silly, but it's just the way I am and like I've said several times I'm not going to contact him so I have 'let it go', already.