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Old 12-19-2015, 11:07 PM
 
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We first met each other coincidentally and afterwards we had great talk, harmony and I felt something click there. I believe he is the man of my life whom I have always been looking for.
Since we are in different places, it's difficult to meet in person, we planned for last week but I had urgent work to do so I asked him to work out his Christmas schedule. At first he was ok but then mentioned that his parents preferred him to be with them during Christmas and would make it up for me during Jan. I am feeling disappointed with that decision and wondering if I am too much asking him to spend his Christmas with me while we've just met twice? I am asking because I feel desperately want to meet him, never felt the same way before so I don't know how to act right and appropriate
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Old 12-19-2015, 11:20 PM
 
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That's a bit too soon, especially if he has family he would primarily spend the holidays with.
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Old 12-19-2015, 11:38 PM
 
Location: Middle America
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I met my husband four days before traveling hundreds of miles to spend Christmas with my family. He was okay with waiting till I got back into town.
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Old 12-20-2015, 03:18 AM
 
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We first met each other coincidentally and afterwards we had great talk, harmony and I felt something click there. I believe he is the man of my life whom I have always been looking for.
Since we are in different places, it's difficult to meet in person, we planned for last week but I had urgent work to do so I asked him to work out his Christmas schedule. At first he was ok but then mentioned that his parents preferred him to be with them during Christmas and would make it up for me during Jan. I am feeling disappointed with that decision and wondering if I am too much asking him to spend his Christmas with me while we've just met twice? I am asking because I feel desperately want to meet him, never felt the same way before so I don't know how to act right and appropriate
That is too early.

I can understand he wants to spend it with his family.
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Old 12-20-2015, 03:23 AM
 
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We first met each other coincidentally and afterwards we had great talk, harmony and I felt something click there. I believe he is the man of my life whom I have always been looking for.
Since we are in different places, it's difficult to meet in person, we planned for last week but I had urgent work to do so I asked him to work out his Christmas schedule. At first he was ok but then mentioned that his parents preferred him to be with them during Christmas and would make it up for me during Jan. I am feeling disappointed with that decision and wondering if I am too much asking him to spend his Christmas with me while we've just met twice? I am asking because I feel desperately want to meet him, never felt the same way before so I don't know how to act right and appropriate

Have you actually met in real life?
Personally I would not take time away from my family on a holiday to spend time with someone I had only talked to a couple times.
Building a potential relationship can wait until after the holidays.
Does he know you are making life long plans for him already?
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Old 12-20-2015, 03:48 AM
 
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Relax... Jan is right around the corner, he's not gonna get hitched during that short time span. Go find yourself something to do during the holidays, don't revolve your life around someone you barely know.
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Old 12-20-2015, 05:01 AM
 
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We first met each other coincidentally and afterwards we had great talk, harmony and I felt something click there. I believe he is the man of my life whom I have always been looking for.
Since we are in different places, it's difficult to meet in person, we planned for last week but I had urgent work to do so I asked him to work out his Christmas schedule. At first he was ok but then mentioned that his parents preferred him to be with them during Christmas and would make it up for me during Jan. I am feeling disappointed with that decision and wondering if I am too much asking him to spend his Christmas with me while we've just met twice? I am asking because I feel desperately want to meet him, never felt the same way before so I don't know how to act right and appropriate
Have you met him twice already or still desperately wanting to meet him?
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Old 12-20-2015, 05:04 AM
 
Location: Pa
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Have you met him twice already or still desperately wanting to meet him?
Hmmm these story tellers need to edit their shyt better.
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Old 12-20-2015, 05:12 AM
 
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Have you met him twice already or still desperately wanting to meet him?
To me, I am not even a native speaker, it is pretty obvious she already saw him two times and she wants to see him again.
Maybe she should have added the "again" to her sentence, but it seems pretty obvious what she means.
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Old 12-20-2015, 05:15 AM
 
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To me, I am not even a native speaker, it is pretty obvious she already saw him two times and she wants to see him again.
Maybe she should have added the "again" to her sentence, but it seems pretty obvious what she means.
Then she should have said she desperately wanted to see him again. If she has already met him twice, it seems silly to "meet" yet again. Unless she can't remember him from the previous two meets.
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