will a guy spend his Christmas with you for the 3rd date?

[RJ312]

First off, end this and focus on local prospects.

Yes, a guy would spend part of his Christmas Day with you for a 3rd date. If he's not spending the day with his family for whatever reason, none of his friends were available because they were spending time with their own families or a significant others' family, and he's not working (fairly probable), he'd certainly be open to doing so. He might not bother to ask because he might assume you are already booked that day and he does not want to look like he has nothing else going on that day. So if a woman indicated she was open and the guy knew he was open, I think he'd go for it. Date planning is a little tougher on Christmas Day because a lot of things are closed, but with enough creativity, a viable date option can be found.

[randomparent]

Originally Posted by Jenny840107

We first met each other coincidentally and afterwards we had great talk, harmony and I felt something click there. I believe he is the man of my life whom I have always been looking for.
Since we are in different places, it's difficult to meet in person, we planned for last week but I had urgent work to do so I asked him to work out his Christmas schedule. At first he was ok but then mentioned that his parents preferred him to be with them during Christmas and would make it up for me during Jan. I am feeling disappointed with that decision and wondering if I am too much asking him to spend his Christmas with me while we've just met twice? I am asking because I feel desperately want to meet him, never felt the same way before so I don't know how to act right and appropriate

Yes, you're asking too much.

[Katnan]

I met my husband a week before Christmas. We spent Christmas Eve Day together since it was a vacation day for both of us, and then went our separate ways for the evening and Christmas Day.

[katharsis]

Depends on how serious (crazy) he is about you. With every serious relationship I have ever had, we both knew immediately that we were the right one for each other (at the time, anyway)! With both myself and the men in my life, family always came second to any serious relationship we had. (My family and I have never been close, and ditto for the men in my life.) If he thought you might be "the one", he would either have Christmas with you or invite you to join him in his family festivities.

My instinct is that you are pushing too hard and that you are much more interested in him than he is in you. If you really like him, my advice is to back off and make other plans for the holidays.

[Ironhorse444]

will a guy spend his Christmas with you for the 3rd date?

I wouldn't... The reason being is if there has only been two dates, then that's not enough time shared, to be intruding into a time when everyone should be with their family.