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Is there anything you like about your husband? Right now it just seems as if you spend your time trying to think up threads about him to make him look bad. If you aren't happy - leave the marriage. If you want to make your marriage work - then for goodness sake - STOP making all these threads about him and start talking TO HIM.
My husband tries but he goes about it the wrong way. He'll swat me on the ass or he'll wait till we're in the bed and he'll grab a boob or something like that. I like to be romanced. He'll laugh and say, "we're in our late 40's and we've been together going on 14 or 15 years now. The days of trying to romance you out of your panties are over." Most of the time when he does that I turn him down cause that's not the way I want to be approached. Why can't he bring flowers home? Take me out to a nice dinner? You know, the little things that women like. When we first met he use to cook for me all the time and that was romantic cause I could go to his place and eat a nice meal. Now he still cooks but it's not the same anymore.
If there is one thing men need to know about the women they are in a relationship with, whether its been 1 yr or 15 years, is this above.
Women will NEVER tire of romance. Flowers, a sweet card, a nice meal, gentle massage and praise for her being a good mother, a good girlfriend,..a good wife..blah blah.
Those things will get a woman in the mood faster that grabbing a boob or swatting her ass, or just jumping on her while grunting 'lets do it'. Cant believe any man over 25 doesn't know that yet.
Is there anything you like about your husband? Right now it just seems as if you spend your time trying to think up threads about him to make him look bad. If you aren't happy - leave the marriage. If you want to make your marriage work - then for goodness sake - STOP making all these threads about him and start talking TO HIM.
I agree, some of the crap that poster says makes me wonder if she's suffering from ASPD, I mean really, at some point you have to start to seriously wonder, all the stuff she complains about him makes him sound like a stand up guy to me, she's pissed cause he's so friendly with grandkids that aren't his bio grandkids, there's been a few other things that made me sort of say what the hell is wrong with this broad??
But this is the Internet and you get all strange types.
This weekend my husband and I were setting some stuff up on my DVR and he gave me his tablet to do some stuff. While going through some photos on his tablet, I came across a video of what looked like his cell phone and on the screen of the phone was a chat message between two people. Basically the chat message said something to the affect of the girl was giving her price to hook up and the guy was questioning it. When I asked him about it he looked at me and said it was a porn video he had downloaded. When I questioned it it looked like someone holding the phone and the thumb looked like his. He said, "why would I video my own phone with my own tablet?" Then he shows me the text messaging on his phone and they did not look the same. He then goes on to say that there's not a man alive who doesn't have a cell phone or tablet who doesn't have a porn site or maybe a video downloaded to his device. I'm now wondering if my husband has a porn addiction. He's always watching Netflix documentaries on hookers, escort services, or women being sold into trafficking. He's working on his master's degree in human services counseling right now and says that aspect of society has fascinated him. Should I worry that he may be addicted to porn? Granted, we're not having sex but maybe once a month or so.
From my personal experience, sounds like he is seeing prostitutes. I was married for 10 years and he would look at documentaries and/or movies about hookers, escort services etc. etc. Well lo and behold, I found out he was cheating when the broad showed up at our home looking for home. Turned out she was a $100 per hour hooker with ads all over the internet and not even attractive but beauty is in the eye of the beerholder. It's time to wake up and smell the coffee especially if you want to avoid catching a disease. Please try to learn from my mistake and avoid future heartache with the ahole.
From my personal experience, sounds like he is seeing prostitutes. I was married for 10 years and he would look at documentaries and/or movies about hookers, escort services etc. etc. Well lo and behold, I found out he was cheating when the broad showed up at our home looking for home. Turned out she was a $100 per hour hooker with ads all over the internet and not even attractive but beauty is in the eye of the beerholder. It's time to wake up and smell the coffee especially if you want to avoid catching a disease. Please try to learn from my mistake and avoid future heartache with the ahole.
Have you even taken the time to read the posting history of this member? It appears you have not or you would not be so quick to refer to her husband as a *Hooker visiting, cheating, disease carrying,ahole*.
This weekend my husband and I were setting some stuff up on my DVR and he gave me his tablet to do some stuff. While going through some photos on his tablet, I came across a video of what looked like his cell phone and on the screen of the phone was a chat message between two people. Basically the chat message said something to the affect of the girl was giving her price to hook up and the guy was questioning it. When I asked him about it he looked at me and said it was a porn video he had downloaded. When I questioned it it looked like someone holding the phone and the thumb looked like his. He said, "why would I video my own phone with my own tablet?" Then he shows me the text messaging on his phone and they did not look the same. He then goes on to say that there's not a man alive who doesn't have a cell phone or tablet who doesn't have a porn site or maybe a video downloaded to his device. I'm now wondering if my husband has a porn addiction. He's always watching Netflix documentaries on hookers, escort services, or women being sold into trafficking. He's working on his master's degree in human services counseling right now and says that aspect of society has fascinated him. Should I worry that he may be addicted to porn? Granted, we're not having sex but maybe once a month or so.
Well I would ask you a question as well.
Are you a good wife, that asked in the terms of, being a good friend, being a good sex partner (not once a month stuff). Do you walk by him and touch him, give a backrub when he is in a chair watching TV... just little things that seem to be forgotten.
He may be just lonely and filling a void. That is something that only you can answer, but you need to be honest with yourself as well.
The problem is you're having sex once a month. What do you expect him to do? Where do you think all that pent up testosterone goes? You deserve to be cheated on.
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