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You sound like you might be a little bit needy. I would suggest you guys have regular dates or movie nights to satisfy your need to be with him outside of sex. Personally, when I am at my house I am not really trying to be up my GF's butt. I will usually be reading stuff online, playing video games, watching movies (she can watch with me), cooking, cleaning, or sleeping.
You need to find your own hobbies to do around the house imo.
But by the OP's description, he's not even into sex. Instead of snuggling in bed with her in the morning, he got up at 5 a.m. to play his games. Most guys in their mid-20's wouldn't turn down snuggle time and sex on a weekend morning. Nor a weekend afternoon.
The OP said she doesn't usually bug him when he's into his games, but this recent time when she did, he was cold and rude.
But by the OP's description, he's not even into sex. Instead of snuggling in bed with her in the morning, he got up at 5 a.m. to play his games. Most guys in their mid-20's wouldn't turn down snuggle time and sex on a weekend morning. Nor a weekend afternoon.
The OP said she doesn't usually bug him when he's into his games, but this recent time when she did, he was cold and rude.
Not much of a boyfriend, if you ask me.
IF he aint into sex then that is strange. OP needs to determine how important sex is for her going forward.
Id wager she bugs him a little more than she is letting on. Or at the very least thinks it.
If it was really a one time thing then he was being a little jerk.
I think the OP needs someone who is more clingy and needy.
IF he aint into sex then that is strange. OP needs to determine how important sex is for her going forward.
Id wager she bugs him a little more than she is letting on. Or at the very least thinks it.
If it was really a one time thing then he was being a little jerk.
I think the OP needs someone who is more clingy and needy.
At 25, she needs to decide how important sex is to her, and whether she can live without it? These aren't 80-year-olds we're talking about, you know. If he's not into it, why is he even with her?
Agreed, that we don't have a clear picture of the clinginess factor on her side, if there is one. But still, a guy who spends 25-30 hrs./week playing video games isn't available for a normal relationship. I'm still curious to know if he spends all that time on the games in addition to working a 40-hr. week, or not.
At 25, she needs to decide how important sex is to her, and whether she can live without it? These aren't 80-year-olds we're talking about, you know. If he's not into it, why is he even with her?
Agreed, that we don't have a clear picture of the clinginess factor on her side, if there is one. But still, a guy who spends 25-30 hrs./week playing video games isn't available for a normal relationship. I'm still curious to know if he spends all that time on the games in addition to working a 40-hr. week, or not.
Yes its funny to say at that age but hey, this is the situation the OP finds herself in lol
Yeah the things he's said to you was jerkish, but you are also being super needy and clingy.
"I want to spend all of my time with him." and "My heart hurts." These quotes would scare me away because I do not want to spend all my time with 1 person even if I were married, and the 2nd line would make sense if he cheated or the guy died. If I said my heart hurts I'm having a heart attack.
Yeah the things he's said to you was jerkish, but you are also being super needy and clingy.
"I want to spend all of my time with him." and "My heart hurts." These quotes would scare me away because I do not want to spend all my time with 1 person even if I were married, and the 2nd line would make sense if he cheated or the guy died. If I said my heart hurts I'm having a heart attack.
Yea OP is def clingy and needy. God bless any man that can deal with that. I know I cant lol
Also if this guy spends that much time playing game, he most likely will be overweight, could affect his libido. I mean it only goes down here from now.
Op you sound clingy. You shouldn't want to spend all your time with ANYONE. Don't you have your own hobbies, your own friends, etc? I am married and we do not entertain each other, or feel the need to cling together at the house. He likes video games, I like shows on Netflix he doesn't like. I go out for coffee or drinks with friends alone, so does he. We have date nights and do hang out, but we also have our own things you like to do. If I guy uttered these works to me, "I want to spend all of my time with him." and "My heart hurts" I would actually be running the other way. That is way too much pressure! With all do respect, you need to get a life of your own and not rely on your boyfriend so much to make you happy.
This happens a lot, people busy with games, computer, phone...... he should put that stuff down for a second when you just want a little attention or affection.
Sometimes you have you use tough love. Are you strong enough to save your relationship? Cut off sex and see if still wants to ignore you.
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These aren't 80-year-olds we're talking about, you know. If he's not into it, why is he even with her?
