Sex on the First Official Date? Good Or Bad Idea? (ladies, honest)
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Maybe what they're hiding is the outright shock that anybody would think a date is trustworthy simply for dropping trou on the first date.
It's weird that anybody could think someone who gets naked by dessert time isn't hiding anything. Maybe she's getting naked and hiding the fact that she has gonorrhea. Or is hiding the fact that she is currently married and her husband owns a gun. Or is hiding the fact that she "oops" forgot the birth control tonight. Maybe she's hiding a cold sore in the back of her inner cheek. Or she's hiding that she's been stalking you on Facebook and that accidental bumping-into wasn't accidental at all and that since that worked so well, she isn't about to stop now.
I mean who the heck knows?
Just such a weird assumption, LOL...that panties hitting the floor by the end of the first date means "honesty." LOL!!!
Yeah, I'm hiding that I'm not attracted to the guy as I don't want to just blurt it out. But I think he's onto me because as soon as I said no to a Canadian three-way following our romantic dinner at Applebee's, he gave me the stink-eye...Gotta work on this hiding stuff a bit better.
LOL, I had a male friend who had a third nipple...it was way low on his chest and off to one side...he showed it to everybody...EVERYBODY.
I think he thought of it as his conversation starter! LOL! I mean why futz around with "So what do you do for a living?" or "Catch The Force Awakens yet?" when you can open with a solid "Want to look at my third nipple?"
Kinda made me want to draw one on for my next date.
LOL, I had a male friend who had a third nipple...it was way low on his chest and off to one side...he showed it to everybody...EVERYBODY.
I think he thought of it as his conversation starter! LOL! I mean why futz around with "So what do you do for a living?" or "Catch The Force Awakens yet?" when you can open with a solid "Want to look at my third nipple?"
Kinda made me want to draw one on for my next date.
Whoah.......hahaha......you want to draw a third nipple on your chest?
The ones who have sex on the first date, they're usually more trust worthy and put all their cards on the table. Not hiding anything (literally and figuratively lol).
You've probably got some growing up to do yet, but this is still one of the most hilariious things I've ever read on CD. It is AMAZING what shi* some "men" come up with to manipulate women.
Not too long ago, "men" unanimously said the opposite: if a woman DID have sex before marriage, let alone after just a few dates, she wasn't trustworthy. And, because a woman's "value" rested almost entirely on her chastity (it was important for a man to marry a virgin. He'd be considered a patsy to marry a woman with any kind of a "past"), "nice" women didn't dare have sex before marriage, no matter how much they wanted to (not to mention their valid fears prior to the advent of the Pill).
But now, their brides' virginity doesn't provide men the same social "respect" it once did (thankfully). So, they've come up with another way to get what benefits THEM: easy, no-strings-attached, emotionless sex, just the way men like it. And, of course, as usual, women are to obey, lest they be subjected to social derision. To that end, name-calling has always been an effective tactic. But like fashion and music, the epithets have changed with the times. Fifty or 60 years ago, disobedient women were called slu** and wh**es. Today, they're called prudes. It's common on CD. "Standards" are getting REALLY tough now, though: women who don't do what men expect them to do with their own bodies are UNTRUSTWORTHY.
Same crap, different pile. All to try to control women.
You've probably got some growing up to do yet, but this is still one of the most hilariious things I've ever read on CD. It is AMAZING what shi* some "men" come up with to manipulate women.
Not too long ago, "men" unanimously said the opposite: if a woman HAD sex before marriage, let alone after just a few dates, she wasn't trustworthy. And, because a woman's "value" rested almost entirely on her chastity (it was important for a man to marry a virgin. He'd be considered a patsy to marry a woman with any kind of a "past"), "nice" women didn't dare have sex before marriage, no matter how much they wanted to (not to mention their valid fears prior to the advent of the Pill).
But, now, their brides' virginity doesn't provide men the same social "benefits" it once did (thankfully). So, they've come up with another way to get what benefits THEM: easy, no-strings-attached, emotionless sex, just the way men like it. And, of course, as usual, women are to obey, lest they be subjected to social derision. To that end, name-calling has always been an effective tactic. But like fashion and music, the epithets have changed with the times. Fifty or 60 years ago, disobedient women were called slu** and wh**es. Today, they're called prudes. It's common on CD. "Standards" are getting REALLY tough now, though: women who don't do what men expect them to do with their own bodies are UNTRUSTWORTHY.
Same crap, different pile. All to try to control women.
Reana, you've said this before. According to you, I want half the guys on CD.
Lol!!!! Maybe you do.....
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