Jealous because my girlfriend had sex with my cousin before she met me (advice, relations)
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I met this girl months ago and we've been dating since them, i'm really trying to forget and avoid jealousy but it's not easy! The fact the i have sex with the same girl my cousin had bothers me too much! I think about breaking up but i love her so much! I'm jealous of her past, unfortunately. People may tell me to end the relationship but i like this girl a lot. I feel myself so imature! She told me in the beginning of our relationship she had sex with my cousin years ago in college. My cousin lied to me, after that i don't talk to him anymore. He lied to me because when i met her he told me he didn't have anything with her, she was just a friend in college years ago. They've know each other for a long time, but she says was only casual, a one night stand! Now talking about other previous relationships we had, she was married twice and i was married only once. I feel jealous in almost everything. I need help how to overcome my insecurities and jealousy. I don't trust her i think she'll cheat on me, she doesn't love...etc. Sometimes i think about breaking up just because she had sex with my cousin, this upsets me very much, even though i like her a lot. What you think i should do? Try? End the relationship? Sometimes i feel like i just can't date a girl who had sex with my cousin, it's tough and hard for me to acceptI don't know what to do anymore!
Ok guys you asked and now you've got it. We had a fight about other problems like her depression low self esteem, her personal problems in life etc and she told me "I think we should break up you don't deserve to be in a relationship with someone like me". I said "ok if it's that what you want".
As I won't chase her because i don't chase women i'll see what happens...I'm done!
Ok guys you asked and now you've got it. We had a fight about other problems like her depression low self esteem, her personal problems in life etc and she told me "I think we should break up you don't deserve to be in a relationship with someone like me". I said "ok if it's that what you want".
As I won't chase her because i don't chase women i'll see what happens...I'm done!
Whew! Finally. What took you so long? Now go to therapy.
I'm close to my cousin's brother and he (my cousin's brother) wants me to introduce my girlfriend to him, i don't think he knows about the situation! Anyway I don't think this is a good idea!
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