Why you get nervous around beautiful women (marry, husband, family)

[stan4]

I must not be human or part of the evolutionart process...bc I never seem to fit into these weird diatribes regarding biological imperatives.

[JerZ]

Originally Posted by Londoncowboy30

On a first actual date with a bit of a build up to it then yes a few butterflies but not when your at a bar or the gym etc and just talking/flirting IMO.

The only real time I may feel slightly apprehensive/nervous is if I really really really like the girl .

Aww....that's too bad... Because I think it is so cute when a guy is obviously a little bit nervous...it is soooooooo sexy...makes me want to push him up against a wall and bite all the buttons off his shirt.

But I'm weird.

[freemkt]

Originally Posted by CSD610

OMGoodness............only immature inexperienced individuals have this ^^^^^^^^^^^^^ thought process.........

Now enlighten us with the mature experienced individual's thought process.

[Londoncowboy30]

Originally Posted by JerZ

Aww....that's too bad... Because I think it is so cute when a guy is obviously a little bit nervous...it is soooooooo sexy...makes me want to push him up against a wall and bite all the buttons off his shirt.

But I'm weird.

I did say i am if I really liked them LOL

[freemkt]

Originally Posted by JerZ

Shouldn't everybody feel a tiny bit nervous at first?

Butterflies-ish?

It's fun! Enjoy it.

I think the nervousness may be just as much due to not knowing what the person is all about, how s/he will react...whether s/he will want you back and so on. JMO.

I find it fun to give gratuitous compliments because I have zero expectations and sometimes the recipient gets an ego boost. What's not to like?

[JerZ]

Originally Posted by freemkt

I find it fun to give gratuitous compliments because I have zero expectations and sometimes the recipient gets an ego boost. What's not to like?

Well...but that's really not nervousness.

[freemkt]

Originally Posted by JerZ

Well...but that's really not nervousness.

That's true, I used to be nervous - and never said anything, and then felt bad about that - until I decided to just say it.

[North Beach Person]

Originally Posted by Pitt Chick

Nothing to do with social status.
Everything to do with maturity and self-esteem!

And having a crappy car.

[Londoncowboy30]

Originally Posted by freemkt

That's true, I used to be nervous - and never said anything, and then felt bad about that - until I decided to just say it.

Good for you mate I'm glad you found the confidence and the courage to do that

Apart from the confidence issue, A lot of the time it's the politics/conflict that goes on in a mans mind that stops him from " pulling a bird " .

[49ersfan27]

I never really interacted with beautiful women because I stood no chance with them so I left them alone. I wasn't nervous I just didn't put myself in a lose lose situation like a lot of guys do.