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-I met a guy when I was out and he gave me his number to text him
-I texted him the following day
-He sounded happy to hear from me but didn't really ask me any personal questions about me other than my age
-Then he immediately shifted the conversation into sex.He asked me about my sexual preferences
-I overlooked and ignored this glaring red flag and stayed in contact with him(I know stupid of me)
- We made plans to hangout ,when I asked him what we were doing,he just said'' we will figure It out"
-He flaked out on our plans and apologized ... something had came up, according to him but didn't bother to make alternative plans
-The next day,he wanted to come over to my apartment in the middle of the night instead but I declined
-It then sank in that I had been ignoring the red flags waving in my face
-I told him that I'm looking for someone to date and not just to hook up with.. Then proceeded to explain that I wanted to keep our interactions outside our homes as we get to know each other first.I asked him if he wants the same things as me or just a hook up?he just said "It is what I want"I asked him to confirm if he is referring to hooking up or taking it slow?He never responded back and disappeared
-I subsequently learned that he lied about his age according to his Face book.He is younger than what I thought
Now few months later,to my suprise he just texted me today and said"Hey it's me Trevor,I have been looking for your number for so long"Thats all he said.I don't think I'm going to respond.Any thoughts?What does he want?
Quite frankly, he only wanted the booty. Count your losses and move on. He checks in with you to see if anything has changed with the booty.
-I met a guy when I was out and he gave me his number to text him
-I texted him the following day
-He sounded happy to hear from me but didn't really ask me any personal questions about me other than my age
-Then he immediately shifted the conversation into sex.He asked me about my sexual preferences
-I overlooked and ignored this glaring red flag and stayed in contact with him(I know stupid of me)
- We made plans to hangout ,when I asked him what we were doing,he just said'' we will figure It out"
-He flaked out on our plans and apologized ... something had came up, according to him but didn't bother to make alternative plans
-The next day,he wanted to come over to my apartment in the middle of the night instead but I declined
-It then sank in that I had been ignoring the red flags waving in my face
-I told him that I'm looking for someone to date and not just to hook up with.. Then proceeded to explain that I wanted to keep our interactions outside our homes as we get to know each other first.I asked him if he wants the same things as me or just a hook up?he just said "It is what I want"I asked him to confirm if he is referring to hooking up or taking it slow?He never responded back and disappeared
-I subsequently learned that he lied about his age according to his Face book.He is younger than what I thought
Now few months later,to my suprise he just texted me today and said"Hey it's me Trevor,I have been looking for your number for so long"Thats all he said.I don't think I'm going to respond.Any thoughts?What does he want?
Maybe he wanted somebody to help clean his room and do some other late night chores before his parents got home from their European vacation.
Lol... really? You saw the red flags, you KNOW what he wants... Nothing changed. He just wants to get laid.
So, why do you ask us? What do you want us to tell you?
Lol, so I decided to text him back soley for sex.However, I have a crush on another guy from work who works in different department --I see a potential with him ... but nothing has happened between us yet.Nevertheless, it's been 2 years since I had sex so I thought why not text this guy back to get some action.I don't see this guy as potential bf but he is back up plan for now
Lol, so I decided to text him back soley for sex.However, I have a crush on another guy from work who works in different department that I see a potential with ... but nothing has happened between us yet.Nevertheless, it's been 2 years since I had sex so I thought why not text this guy back.I don't see this guy as potential bf but he is back up plan for now
Wow!
So, if a guy gets turned down for sex he may have a chance if he keeps in contact from time to time ?
Well afterwards , I realized that I didn't want anything more with him but woudn't mind to hook up.I was even contemplanting to text him back after a month or so but decided against it .....i thought the ship has sailed lol.We were on the same page after all
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