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-I met a guy when I was out and he gave me his number to text him
-I texted him the following day
-He sounded happy to hear from me but didn't really ask me any personal questions about me other than my age
-Then he immediately shifted the conversation into sex.He asked me about my sexual preferences
-I overlooked and ignored this glaring red flag and stayed in contact with him(I know stupid of me)
- We made plans to hangout ,when I asked him what we were doing,he just said'' we will figure It out"
-He flaked out on our plans and apologized ... something had came up, according to him but didn't bother to make alternative plans
-The next day,he wanted to come over to my apartment in the middle of the night instead but I declined
-It then sank in that I had been ignoring the red flags waving in my face
-I told him that I'm looking for someone to date and not just to hook up with.. Then proceeded to explain that I wanted to keep our interactions outside our homes as we get to know each other first.I asked him if he wants the same things as me or just a hook up?he just said "It is what I want"I asked him to confirm if he is referring to hooking up or taking it slow?He never responded back and disappeared
-I subsequently learned that he lied about his age according to his Face book.He is younger than what I thought
Now few months later,to my suprise he just texted me today and said"Hey it's me Trevor,I have been looking for your number for so long"Thats all he said.I don't think I'm going to respond.Any thoughts?What does he want?
Definitely only wanted sex... asked you to come over in the middle of the night, ignoring your question about clarification on what he wanted. If it's not something you are into, you should just ignore him and move on. I doubt he's changed that much in a few months. It's ok to want only sex, but he's very sketchy about the whole situation, not to mention the age thing.
OP, re-read your post. I can't believe you're asking us, "What does he want". You figured it out once already, when you said you realized you'd been ignoring the red flags waving in your face.
The red flags are still there, except there are more of them.
-I met a guy when I was out and he gave me his number to text him
-I texted him the following day
-He sounded happy to hear from me but didn't really ask me any personal questions about me other than my age
-Then he immediately shifted the conversation into sex.He asked me about my sexual preferences
-I overlooked and ignored this glaring red flag and stayed in contact with him(I know stupid of me)
- We made plans to hangout ,when I asked him what we were doing,he just said'' we will figure It out"
-He flaked out on our plans and apologized ... something had came up, according to him but didn't bother to make alternative plans
-The next day,he wanted to come over to my apartment in the middle of the night instead but I declined
-It then sank in that I had been ignoring the red flags waving in my face
-I told him that I'm looking for someone to date and not just to hook up with.. Then proceeded to explain that I wanted to keep our interactions outside our homes as we get to know each other first.I asked him if he wants the same things as me or just a hook up?he just said "It is what I want"I asked him to confirm if he is referring to hooking up or taking it slow?He never responded back and disappeared
-I subsequently learned that he lied about his age according to his Face book.He is younger than what I thought
Now few months later,to my suprise he just texted me today and said"Hey it's me Trevor,I have been looking for your number for so long"Thats all he said.I don't think I'm going to respond.Any thoughts?What does he want?
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