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I understand what you're saying about the relationship just cruising along, that's how I felt looking back on it. I just wish I knew that is how he felt before any of this with the other girl even came about. I did not want to just throw everything we had away either but he did not want to continue with me.
It would have been nice to be broken up with before any of this all happened. But whats done is done I guess.
Glad to hear you found happiness.
Some people flat out don't realize what they lost until they no longer have it. Hey I thought my ex was the one. The best thing she did was dump me for that new guy.
Sometimes a relationship settles into this cruise mode. Some people need a always more something to stay interested. This guy isn't the one. You sound fairly young as far as relationships go. You will find the right guy for you. This is all just a learning curve. But trust your instinct. If your gut tells you something is wrong, there usually us something wrong.
I know it's hard to stop thinking about N ex after being dumped but this guy is obviously not for you so wondering about his messed up actions is pointless. Put that energy into improving yourself
I hate to tell you this, although it is better to know now than later. He was splicing! This is the truth, as far as I can guess by the circumstances. I am so sorry, but it happens often for women.
Him having come from several unhealthy relationships, had told me all the time that I was a great girlfriend, that he never wanted to lose me, etc. We had a very strong mental bond from the start, great communication, no trust issues, It was your typical madly in love ~perfect~ relationship.
There ya go.
Life Lesson #76- Always beware of the person who has had a string of unhealthy relationships. The probability is very high that, if he gets into a healthy relationship, he will not be able to handle the intimacy and will need to sabotage things. Add bonus points if he also "falls madly in love" very quickly.
He met a woman who had just got a new job in the same shopping plaza as he and they got to talking and he invited her to get a bite to eat at his friend's shop after work since their shifts ended the same time. They exchanged phone numbers and said they'd see each other the next day.
... he screwed me over and wanted someone new and exciting.
He's a cheater, it's over, don't fret your pretty head about it anymore.
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