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Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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I'm not religious or spiritual at all but I can believe that karma may impact my lack of a dating life. I've had women who I've seemed to be connecting with in the last few months in OLD go ghost. I've down the same thing to a couple of women. Can't help but think I have to suffer the consequences of my actions in one fashion or another.
Yes, I've seen every single guy who ever dumped me or flaked on me abruptly either regret it and apologize to me (like I needed an apology years later, ha!) or end up with someone worse (i.e. fat or a single mom), otherwise they're alone and lonely. The only guy who I ever "wronged" (and believe me, he did a LOT wrong, too!) is the only one who could be said upgraded from me (at least looks-wise), years on.
It's all fun and games when they're young, skinny and not yet going bald but men only think with their ***** when they're in their late teens and early 20's.
Last edited by torontocheeka; 03-07-2016 at 11:04 AM..
My crazy bi-polar ex-girlfriend was cheating on me and doing just plain weird stuff when she went off her meds. Some of it involved acting out in the employee restroom and then posting the pics on her Tumblr website. So not only lost a stable guy with a decent paycheck but also lost her next to impossible to get fired from government job. Spent almost 9 months unemployed and then snuck off to the other side of the country to get away from her friends and family once they found out what she was doing. Made me very happy to see how quickly her life fell apart.
I believe in Karma in all forms of life, which is why I treat everyone I meet in life with a positive, warm, friendly disposition and big smile on my face, always willing to help. I want people when thy meet me to say "He is a good person" "fun to be around", I never treat people bad.
For instance if you've flaked or ghosted on people it will come back to you with someone you like?
Or if you've cheated?
Nope. Some people are jerks throughout their lives and seem to never get any sort of comeuppance at all.
Others seem to be super sweet and always nice and get dumped all over on a regular basis.
Then, there's everyone in between.
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