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Old 06-19-2015, 04:19 PM
 
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I met this guy at the end of April. We have been talking since and have been on 2 dates. The first date was great, but i felt our second one was a little off.i don't know if it's that we lack chemistry with one another or we were both nervous, etc,. The end of our night was a lot better and we bonded over talking about our childhoods and showing pictures. However, i was up for giving it more time. I was hoping we could have a third date or hangout some more and see where it goes. I feel like 2 dates is nothing.

We talked for the last time the day after our date which was almost two weeks
Ago. We've only been snapchatting since.

I usually am spot on with my gut instincts and i feel he is over it/us already. I texted him before (4 hours ago) and have yet to receieve a response. He has been on facebook since.

I'm very surprised if he is doing the whole "ignore" thing as he was such a gentelman. It's
Making me feel like complete ****.

I feel like i'm such a big failure when it's comes to dating and relationships...i either date *******s, meet nice guys or it's not what i expected or there is no chemistry. It woild be nice to meet someone right and have a successful relationship.

I don't know..starting to think a good relationship will never be in the cards for me.
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Old 06-19-2015, 04:51 PM
 
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OP:

How old are you?
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Old 06-19-2015, 05:07 PM
 
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How old are you?
22
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Old 06-19-2015, 05:12 PM
 
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When I was your age, I was not even remotely ready for a relationship.

So I was not focusing on that.

When you *general you* are in your early twenties, you are still trying to find yourself as well as your place in this world.

I would suggest just casually dating.
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Old 06-19-2015, 05:17 PM
 
Location: a primitive state
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If nothing has happened by now, unfortunately, he's not very interested. Time to meet new guys...
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Old 06-19-2015, 05:23 PM
 
Location: sumter
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If at first you don't succeed, try, try again. Keep trying, you will eventually get it right, or meet the right guy.
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Old 06-19-2015, 05:54 PM
 
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If you met him at the end of April and have only had two dates with him, I'd say it's time to move on. You're young, right now you should be dating to have fun and enjoy yourself, no need to search for a serious relationship just yet.
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Old 06-19-2015, 06:30 PM
 
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Well, don't give up on dating just because some guy hasn't contacted you. He's just not that "right" one for you. You have plenty of time to find Mr. Right and not Mr. Right Now.
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Old 06-19-2015, 06:58 PM
 
Location: coastlines
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Find something you love... and do it--a lot.

Chances are, you'll meet someone else who also likes it.

You'll become friends, and things will naturally evolve.

Put yourself, and your interests first... learn more of who you are... the rest will come.

I promise.
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Old 06-19-2015, 07:54 PM
 
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I don't know..starting to think a good relationship will never be in the cards for me.
You're right. I mean you're 22 already...may as well give up hope.
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