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Old 03-18-2016, 07:38 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Let him in the back door, nudge nudge.


 
Old 03-18-2016, 07:41 PM
 
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Any ideas how I can submit to him? I want him to know that he deserves to be the head of our household.
It's simple. He expects something of you, and you do it.

Have you discussed what you being submissive to him would look like? That might be your first step in this whole process.
 
Old 03-18-2016, 07:41 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I was going to make a joke about him slamming it, but no...
You can't slam it, you have to close it gently.
 
Old 03-18-2016, 07:44 PM
 
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Only the first couple of times.
 
Old 03-18-2016, 07:50 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Oh tmi! TMI!!!!!! Lol!
 
Old 03-18-2016, 07:51 PM
 
Location: Toronto
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My husband has always been good to me but sometimes I feel like I don't do enough for him. He's naturally a good leader and provider, and I would feel very comfortable submitting to him more. When we got married we used the old fashioned vows of love, honour and obey, and I really want to show him that I meant it because I don't want him to think that I take him for granted. It's not that i'm unappreciative, but I want to show my appreciation of him more.

Any ideas how I can submit to him? I want him to know that he deserves to be the head of our household.
... Is someone paying to post. Is this one of those reverse psychology threads . How old are you? I tried whole submissive thing when I was a in my late teens/early 20s. It was not for me lol ! Did you promise to be submissive in your wedding vows ? Women really need to read those things carefully before saying I do and not get so distracted by the shiny ring, pretty dress, flowers and cake ! With one particular person I thought he wanted me to be submissive, but turns out it was giving him a bit of a complex in the bed room as he interpreted it as me not being in to him or enjoying the experience. Maybe he wants you to be more assertive? How do you know he does not want you to seduce him lol? How do you know he wants you to be more submissive?
 
Old 03-18-2016, 07:54 PM
 
Location: Toronto
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Easy! Start doing little things for him like cook, give him a full body massage with hot oil, run a hot bath, rub his feet, Get the pic?

Bow to the King baby!
OMG that line just makes my stomach turn !
 
Old 03-18-2016, 07:55 PM
 
Location: Toronto
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Is submission the only way you can show your appreciation?
I know ... what the heck happened to just being nice and respectful?
 
Old 03-18-2016, 07:56 PM
 
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I know ... what the heck happened to just being nice and respectful?
Some people actually enjoy this sort of dynamic.
 
Old 03-18-2016, 07:57 PM
 
Location: New Yawk
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Oh tmi! TMI!!!!!! Lol!
LOL, just a typical Friday night on CD-R
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