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It's been goig for almost as long as we have been married...almost 5 years. He is so closed, has never ever let me in as much as I've tried. We come from different cultures, but never was a big deal...I am the affectionate, loving, always iniciating....at first he said "testosterone levels off"...tested and results? Slightly off, bought big amounts of Viagra...they're sitting in the drawer...
No intimacy, no affection...Im super young and called a gorgeous woman... (havig a bit of low self-esteem issue due to all this)....im tired to cry myself to sleep and tired of feeling undesired by the one I desire with my heart.
Last edited by Mrs.Shw911; 03-10-2016 at 12:31 PM..
Is this an arranged marriage or are you a mail-order bride? Why did he marry you?
You don't have a marriage. You might as well divorce. It doesn't sound like he's interested in marriage or you, sorry to say. You deserve a better life.
I am Latino, he is Caucasian. Im from the city, Educated.
He is from a small town, country. I marry him because I wanted to, he is a great person, very respectful and commited, same as me. Differences are meant to be respected, not an issue for us.
He's in his 60's, I am in my early 40's.
It has never been a big deal the fact that we are a bi-cultural marriage.
No i was not a virgen, I was a widow.
Ask him to go to marriage counseling with you. It sounds like he's not willing to open up to you and discuss whatever the problem might be, so a counselor could facilitate that process.
So you married a concept in your mind and decided it was going to work becuase you wanted it to. This does not make a marriage
That requires you to accept his world as much as much as he is to accept yours to make YOUR own together, not people going to their separate corners until they want something from the other.
I can't answer why he seems to have pulled away from you, Only he has those answers
I am Latino, he is Caucasian. Im from the city, Educated.
He is from a small town, country. I marry him because I wanted to, he is a great person, very respectful and commited, same as me. Differences are meant to be respected, not an issue for us.
He's in his 60's, I am in my early 40's.
It has never been a big deal the fact that we are a bi-cultural marriage.
No i was not a virgen, I was a widow.
Was he open and affectionate and loving before you got married?
It's been goig for almost as long as we have been married...almost 5 years. He is so closed, has never ever let me in as much as I've tried. We come from different cultures, but never was a big deal...I am the affectionate, loving, always iniciating....at first he said "testosterone levels off"...tested and results? Slightly off, bought big amounts of Viagra...they're sitting in the drawer...
No intimacy, no affection...Im super young and called a gorgeous woman... (havig a bit of low self-esteem issue due to all this)....im tired to cry myself to sleep and tired of feeling undesired by the one I desire with my heart.
LOL. All a matter of perspective.
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