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" Eye contact question part 2 ....... I saw this super sexy lady in the gym and we spoke whilst she was with her trainer , but she caught me looking at her bum and now I've not seen her in weeks ...... Have I blown it? And the next time I see her shall I pull the trigger and ask her out? " ........
No one believes me but I have allot on my plate these days. It's hard for me to get around to this. We still do the looking game
After our last talk which went super well. (She's not all trying to avoid me with how friendly she is)
Our eye contact increases after a talk. Once again, a while later she's is talking to someone else and looking at me and not him.
Her body language is not disinterest it's positive. After I talk with her for five minutes I feel much better about asking and talking is more relaxed between us.
She must know by now and even then I like her, and quite a bit. Women often know or suspect she you like the.If she was repulsed by me our talks would be different and no eye contact. But talking with her is easy and it flows.
When we have another good talk I'll ask at the end.
Im feeling more confident now about doing this. I need that confidence boost to do this.
Just how we're both busy these days, her lifestyle and preferences for how she spends her times are similar mine. I told her in detail that I don't know anyone and dont get out, she had a huge massive smile and grin when I told her that. I was saying I don't have a GF.
I told her about my cousins baby, and she mentions she wants one as well.
I can ask after another good talk it would be well times then and we have now been acquainted enough.
She must now I like her / and that we have some mutual interest`. If she didnt have any interest at all she would be more cold. She knows what up its obvious that I am into her.
As our conversations flow and are effortless. I notice after she looks at me more and more, the better our talks get. Its like we're getting used to each other. The conversations go well so her interest is piqued so we do they eye contact thing more. Or she's talking to someone ale and looks at me 15 feet away.
It feels good overall here. we're begining to know each other past small talk.
More fantasy! You've talked to her once in the past month! And probably 3 times before that. But you have embellished your fantasy to seem like you talk almost every day. You say she texted about you "allot" but then you admit it was only a single vague text. Strangers are pulling you away from her. She outright told you that she did not want to have a private conversation with you and denied that she ever asked you to.
More fantasy! You've talked to her once in the past month! And probably 3 times before that. But you have embellished your fantasy to seem like you talk almost every day. You say she texted about you "allot" but then you admit it was only a single vague text. Strangers are pulling you away from her. She outright told you that she did not want to have a private conversation with you and denied that she ever asked you to.
Please stop. It's dishonest and embarrassing.
this multiple train wreck is now turning into a plane wreck, when will it end? oh the humanity! this is starting to rival these incidents in history;
Just how we're both busy these days, her lifestyle and preferences for how she spends her times are similar mine. I told her in detail that I don't know anyone and dont get out, she had a huge massive smile and grin when I told her that. I was saying I don't have a GF.
I told her about my cousins baby, and she mentions she wants one as well.
I can ask after another good talk it would be well times then and we have now been acquainted enough.
She must now I like her / and that we have some mutual interest`. If she didnt have any interest at all she would be more cold. She knows what up its obvious that I am into her.
As our conversations flow and are effortless. I notice after she looks at me more and more, the better our talks get. Its like we're getting used to each other. The conversations go well so her interest is piqued so we do they eye contact thing more. Or she's talking to someone ale and looks at me 15 feet away.
It feels good overall here. we're begining to know each other past small talk.
I didn't ask what you told her you were up to, I asked you what she told you she was up to. What she told you about herself. Not what she 'must know', not how you interpret her looks, not your description of her 'huge massive smile and grin' based on what you shared about yourself. She actually told you she wants a baby? Or did she say she wants a cousin?
What do you actually know about her? What does she do for a living, for instance? What do you call her when you speak to her? You've told her you don't have a gf, did she tell you if she has a bf? You mentioned that the two of you are now past small talk - which deeper subjects have the two of you discussed? I think if you can actually answer these questions it would shed some light about what's really going on in your gym.
Ok, what did I miss? This seems to be a very popular thread.
If every time I was talking to someone I kept my eye on this one guy, it's probably because I need to know where he is, and I might even be saying: "and he's watching me right now even..can you walk me out to my car? somethings not right here..."
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More fantasy! You've talked to her once in the past month! And probably 3 times before that. But you have embellished your fantasy to seem like you talk almost every day. You say she texted about you "allot" but then you admit it was only a single vague text. Strangers are pulling you away from her. She outright told you that she did not want to have a private conversation with you and denied that she ever asked you to.
No one believes me but I have allot on my plate these days. It's hard for me to get around to this. We still do the looking game
After our last talk which went super well. (She's not all trying to avoid me with how friendly she is)
Our eye contact increases after a talk. Once again, a while later she's is talking to someone else and looking at me and not him.
Her body language is not disinterest it's positive. After I talk with her for five minutes I feel much better about asking and talking is more relaxed between us.
She must know by now and even then I like her, and quite a bit. Women often know or suspect she you like the.If she was repulsed by me our talks would be different and no eye contact. But talking with her is easy and it flows.
When we have another good talk I'll ask at the end.
Im feeling more confident now about doing this. I need that confidence boost to do this.
That was a friendly joke with javier bardem and not you mate I thought that was obvious
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and now I've not seen her in weeks 
...... Have I blown it? And the next time I see her shall I pull the trigger and ask her out? " ........ 
