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Old 04-09-2016, 07:17 AM
 
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We have been on 4 dates, and he sort of seems into me...for example, continues to hang out with me, holds my hand sometimes...but other things make me not sure. We made out on the second date, but otherwise have hardly kissed (he kissed me on the cheek at the end of the third date, at the end of the fourth date we were sitting alone watching tv for a few hours, and he only quickly kissed me right before leaving). That's strange, right?
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Old 04-09-2016, 07:19 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Did you expect sex on the 3rd date?
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Old 04-09-2016, 07:23 AM
 
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Nope, definitely not! And I also don't expect that after making out once, hanging out will always lead to making out...but it just seems weird that we have hardly even kissed at all since the first time that we kissed/made out.
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Old 04-09-2016, 07:59 AM
 
Location: Central IL
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Did you expect sex on the 3rd date?
Jeez...no, but most women expect a PROGRESSION of intimacy. If it's not progressing then why continue? Especially if it goes from making out to a quick peck or just hand holding? Yeah, I'd wonder too!
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Old 04-09-2016, 08:40 AM
 
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Ask him
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Old 04-09-2016, 09:22 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Are you being physically flirty otherwise? Touching him on the shoulder or holding hands, etc?

Do you sit close to him?
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Old 04-09-2016, 05:57 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Are you being physically flirty otherwise? Touching him on the shoulder or holding hands, etc?

Do you sit close to him?
That's what I was wondering

OP for him to " take a back seat " like that it sounds like you possibly aren't giving out the right signals and he feels that maybe you are not so into him perhaps?

I think he still likes you otherwise he wouldn't turn up for the dates since but that's the only conclusion that springs to mind
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Old 04-09-2016, 08:27 PM
 
Location: New York
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If you're not initiating any flirting or affection, he's probably thinking you're friend zoning him and not being upfront about it, so he's distancing himself.
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Old 04-09-2016, 08:38 PM
 
Location: Pa
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He's respectable?
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Old 04-09-2016, 09:26 PM
 
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I'd be confused also.
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