What's a personality trait that will keep someone out of the dating scene? (woman, gay)

[croftylot24]

I believe it's being a feminine man. Most people will assume that you're gay.

[Summer_Rain]

Originally Posted by croftylot24

I believe it's being a feminine man. Most people will assume that you're gay.

What's your definition of a "feminine man"?

[croftylot24]

Originally Posted by Summer_Rain

What's your definition of a "feminine man"?

Well I'm going by most peoples definition. Female grooming and wearing a purse.

[Milehighrockies]

I would say able to make conversation. If a feminine man can talk to a woman and make her laugh, I think he still get a good shot in dating.

[1xolisiwe]

Originally Posted by croftylot24

I believe it's being a feminine man. Most people will assume that you're gay.

Metrosexuals are not lacking for dates.

There are so many things that could reduce attraction, but personally I loathe guys who are full of self pity, lazy, unadventurous, uptight, no sense of humour & guys who are followers and can't think for themselves. I could go on, but this will do for now

[hawaiiancoconut]

What if a feminine man is gay and dating gay men? Not so out of the dating scene, is he?

[soy sauce]

Being a douche and or b*tch isn't a trait most people admire.

[Checkered24]

OP, you'd be surprised who can get dates.


Real traits that will hinder dating: Social anxiety, anti-social behavior, dour demeanor, negativity....

[Aura 524]

Those who are too quick to criticize and nitpick others will find themselves on the outside looking in.

[Mikelee81]

A hostile defensive attitude