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Old 05-01-2016, 04:28 PM
 
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Staying friends with ex's rarely works. You were sending mixed messages.

You dump her, then offer to be friends, then start dating other people straight away, then you tell your ex you want her back and now you're pissy she isn't coming back to you or taking rubbish from you.

I don't blame her for not wanting you back. The girl has enough dignity not to go back to you. Fair play to her.
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Old 05-01-2016, 04:38 PM
 
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You broke up with her.

"Moved on."

She found out.

Moved on.

Don't understand what's so confusing about that. If anything, I'm confused as to why you're confused.
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Old 05-01-2016, 05:13 PM
 
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It is not that difficult. Who cares? The other is free to do what ever they want.
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Old 05-01-2016, 06:20 PM
 
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Yes go no contact.
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Old 05-01-2016, 06:40 PM
 
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Yea, you ended the relationship. She might not have believed it in the beginning. You then talked to a new girl and rubbed it in her face. So, your action backed up what you said earlier. From then on, she moved on.

Later on. You said you want her back. First, if I am your ex, why would I believe you? There is nothing changed between you flipping your position. All that shows is : you are not reliable. Second, it sounds like you tested the field (with the new girl), see nothing good and want to come back. You are treating your ex like a backup plan. By now, no trust, no respect.
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Old 05-02-2016, 07:34 AM
 
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A classic case of "I don't want you, but don't want anyone else to have you (just in case)."
Exactly!

Isn't that when the ex lover kills them? Lol!
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