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Originally Posted by Ruth4Truth
Whoa, simmer down. The Dissenter doesn't go around calling women "ugly" to their face. He probably doesn't say that about women even to his friends. It's an internet discussion. He means, "women who aren't attractive to him".
....Don't you, Diss?
I am only using ugly as an adjective for the purposes of Internet convos. I have to describe an appearance, what adjective do people want me to use? Ugly to me may well mean beautiful to someone else.
Is English not your first language? I am not trying to insult. You just don't seem to understand what some of us are saying on this thread.
I understand your last post perfectly. I was asking you how did you think this thread that you started was going to turn out? Is it really that difficult a question to understand?
Wait, I didn't mean being bitter and sexist was expected. I mean struggling with dating is expected. You're just starting and just learning.
Ah. Ok. I guess I was thinking more of having the attitude of women being things as the root cause of dating woes. Which, as you know, is my root shtick.
As you claim to be Black Democrat Childfree Atheist
So you like to be called N-word? Not?
Well, women who are called ugly by you are treated just as badly by you than black people are called by n-word. Calling someone ugly express negativity towards a person, non-acception, discrimination and despicing attitude. Ugly in this society is inhuman and kicked, unwanted another without respect.
If you don't accept to be treated unfair because your blackness = looks, why would you bully and misstreat women that are not your ideal? You don't actually have to bring up ugliness at all, people can choose their word to not insult those that they are not personally attracted to.
That is the main part why it is my favourite... Guys are biting their own leg...
There is no reason to call people ugly, that is bullying term.
Calling people ugly is insulting.
And everyone who becomes "ugly" to you is able to be pretty and ideal to someone else.
I understand your last post perfectly. I was asking you how did you think this thread that you started was going to turn out? Is it really that difficult a question to understand?
I understand what you said. It just makes no sense at all in response to what I wrote. I did not think about whether or not it turned out peacefully since I don't care. Anyone who wants to get pissy can go on any number of other people's ignore lists. I have enjoyed the conversation with a number of people.
Doing it behind their back doesn't make it and better.
Yes it does. I don't care what negative thoughts you have about me as long as you don't tell me about it. Dissenter calling women who none of us know "ugly rejects" is nothing compared to the rudeness that gets directed to posters here.
A lot of the single Bitter Boys are in their late 20s, 30s and some 40s.
And us married folk are, what, mostly 40s, and some 50s? I'm in my early 30s.
I totally agree - married and 50 myself. What really bothers me is the 40 year old ones - they should know better by now. All of them need to listen: Once you angst-ridden boys reaches a certain age, it's NOT CUTE ANYMORE. Nobody has any interest anymore in writing your name on the front of their English notebook like in high school, or wants to be your muse. Kurt Cobain could pull it off, YOU CAN'T Your "struggle" is not "real", you are not being discriminated against - and if you'd join us here in the real world where people act like mature, responsible, respectful, sharing and caring individuals who AREN'T wrapped up in themselves and their imaginary world where every one is out to get YOU for [whine]no reason [/whine], I'm sure that will become clearer. it's not the women's fault that you behave like Peter Pan with a Persecution Complex. Own it - quit blaming everyone else for your shortcomings.
All that being said, I do have to wonder what these single Bitter Boys get out of posting this nonsense. I will give them credit, they've taught me an important lesson: Be very careful when you open that junk drawer - you never can tell what kind of wingnut is going to fall out.
I am only using ugly as an adjective for the purposes of Internet convos. I have to describe an appearance, what adjective do people want me to use? Ugly to me may well mean beautiful to someone else.
Never once have I thought you'd tell a woman you're not attracted to that she's ugly. I've turned down a lot of men due to lack of attraction. They may have not been "ugly," but the fact still stands, I wasn't attracted to them. So what. I never divulged this, however, and anyone who would is an asshat.
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Originally Posted by Sweet Like Sugar
Yes it does. I don't care what negative thoughts you have about me as long as you don't tell me about it. Dissenter calling women who none of us know "ugly rejects" is nothing compared to the rudeness that gets directed to posters here.
You don't know it, but that doesn't make it more acceptable for another to say it. Not in any way. That's like a little kid crying "but you weren't supposed to know that!" and thinking that excuses an action. It does not. Just as stealing something and the person it was stolen from never finding out or noticing it was missing doesn't make it acceptable.
And I see relatively little rudeness here, I see lots of tough love, which is needed.
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Originally Posted by soUlwounD
As you claim to be Black Democrat Childfree Atheist
So you like to be called N-word? Not?
Well, women who are called ugly by you are treated just as badly by you than black people are called by n-word. Calling someone ugly express negativity towards a person, non-acception, discrimination and despicing attitude. Ugly in this society is inhuman and kicked, unwanted another without respect.
If you don't accept to be treated unfair because your blackness = looks, why would you bully and misstreat women that are not your ideal? You don't actually have to bring up ugliness at all, people can choose their word to not insult those that they are not personally attracted to.
That is the main part why it is my favourite... Guys are biting their own leg...
There is no reason to call people ugly, that is bullying term.
Calling people ugly is insulting.
And everyone who becomes "ugly" to you is able to be pretty and ideal to someone else.
Calling someone the N word is FAR more serious matter than calling someone who you aren't physically attracted to ugly.
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Kurt Cobain could pull it off, YOU CAN'T Your "struggle" is not "real", you are not being discriminated against - and if you'd join us here in the real world where people act like mature, responsible, respectful, sharing and caring individuals who AREN'T wrapped up in themselves and their imaginary world where every one is out to get YOU for [whine]no reason [/whine], I'm sure that will become clearer. it's not the women's fault that you behave like Peter Pan with a Persecution Complex. Own it - quit blaming everyone else for your shortcomings. 
