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Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Originally Posted by rbohm
yep, women are like diesel engines, they need to be warmed up to get going, but once there, they run forever. men are like pro stock cars. we just need some heat in our tires, then we make the run and head back to the pits to cool off.
Only if this was true. Even the most fit ones seem to always need breaks, then start go for awhile, then another break... etc etc. They get better in their 40s, and good quality lube can be a lifesaver, but yeah.
Horny men just want sex. Horny women have all sorts of devious motives, need attention, have emotional issues, and repressed guilt. They probably cheat on their taxes to boot.
LOL... Horny women just want sex too sometimes. It's not 1950 anymore June... We're allowed to express our sexuality... Just like men.
LOL... Horny women just want sex too sometimes. It's not 1950 anymore June... We're allowed to express our sexuality... Just like men.
And it's a good thing. I really don't understand men who find women wanting to bang them, or women who want to bang some other man to be a problem. Just be bangable and you'll be OK.
Here's the thing that gets overlooked though. What if the OP is a sensitive person who had probably unrealistic hopes for something here, or just got his signals crossed?
Here's the thing that gets overlooked though. What if the OP is a sensitive person who had probably unrealistic hopes for something here, or just got his signals crossed?
I don't think that's been overlooked, really. I think it's pretty obvious the OP wanted more; even the thread title asks what he did "wrong." You can't really miss that he's unhappy about this.
We know he wanted more and that he's reacting badly to this. It happens, to both women and men. You think you're getting "more," but it turns out you were just a lay. I'm not saying it isn't sad. It is. But it DOES happen and in this case, it happened to the OP, who needs to move on from here and perhaps seek different venues to find someone, or else keep trying with this one while being VERY clear he is out for a full-on relationship.
The OP should take heart that he probably didn't actually do anything "wrong," except to not vet his potential mate a bit more and perhaps wait (and see if she was willing to wait) on the sex. But it seems pretty clear she DID want just sex from him, so either way he'd have ultimately been dropped - either because no sex happened, or immediately after she was done with the sex. It isn't his fault, she simply didn't want the same thing he wanted.
I am definitely a cook - you can tune the car engine while I make a five-star dinner, deal?
sounds like a deal to me.
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