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Old 06-15-2016, 01:14 PM
 
Location: Earth
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True. The baby-faced ones get mistaken for teens through their 30's and into their 40's, even. We've had a few women posting about that here, over the years. It can hold them back professionally, too, even if they dress in their best "take me seriously" clothes.
Yep. I don't think I wear anything childish. Closest would be jeans, and crocks on a more relaxed day when I am just grocery shopping or going to a doctor.

I'm trying to go the clothes route. lol I may need more makeup too. I usually don't wear any these past few years. But my eyes are hidden behind tinted glasses. So I mainly just need blush and lipstick. Nobody is gonna see my eyes, if I can help it.

But it's just the bad luck some have. My older relatives insist I am lucky, and my mother says she'd love to be mistaken for 14.

But I stand by what I say. Being an older adult looking like a younger adult is fine. Already being a young adult, and looking like a minor is not exactly a good thing lol. Professionally, or Socially

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Old 06-15-2016, 01:22 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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No, and if some dude did, she's better off without him. What an incredible non issue. An awesome woman is an awesome woman.
I agree.

If my longtime partner insisted on breast implants, it would raise my caution flag. I would take a close look at my relationship to see if there's any underlying issues that I'm not aware of.
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Old 06-15-2016, 02:13 PM
 
Location: D.C.
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I personally have never understood this as I've never discounted someone based on certain body features, or lack thereof. I guess it's her choice though, although if you are strapped for savings in the grand scheme of things I would think paying other bills (mortgage/rent, groceries, etc.) would take a much higher priority over this.
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Old 06-15-2016, 02:22 PM
 
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It's not my cup of tea.
the scaring and unnaturally shape that is

But, if my wife insisted I couldn't stop her. I don't have to like them to like her still.

Now if she started going all joker with her face...I would have some serious issues remaining ok and physically attracted to the person I know. That is just the way of the world, not everything can be acceptable to everyone and remain the same.

Changes do have an affect, hence they are "changes" a difference from what was

If my wife suddenly got the itch to desire larger breasts (unlikely since she is already large) my main concern would be where she was at mentally with herself and not solely on what I liked to see or desired psychically from her.
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Old 06-15-2016, 02:24 PM
 
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I personally have never understood this as I've never discounted someone based on certain body features, or lack thereof. I guess it's her choice though, although if you are strapped for savings in the grand scheme of things I would think paying other bills (mortgage/rent, groceries, etc.) would take a much higher priority over this.
For some women, breast size means what penis size does to some men.

Some women are size queens and want nothing to do with a man below a certain length and/or girth. Same with some men with regards to a woman's breasts, or butt. And despite telling some that many don't care, it doesn't fly with them.

Some body parts people treat as a manhood or womanhood type of thing. And when they are smaller, they feel inadequate, or insecure. The OP's wife is sensitive about her small top. I am sensitive about my small bottom. lol But I have to live with it.

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Old 06-15-2016, 03:29 PM
 
Location: Manchester, UK
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For some women, breast size means what penis size does to some men.

Some women are size queens and want nothing to do with a man below a certain length and/or girth. Same with some men with regards to a woman's breasts, or butt.And despite telling some that many don't care, it doesn't fly with them.

Some body parts people treat as a manhood or womanhood type of thing. And when they are smaller, they feel inadequate, or insecure. The OP's wife is sensitive about her small top. I am sensitive about my small bottom. lol But I have to live with it.
I was just about to post something like that, then saw your post!

I wonder how many men with a small penis would opt for penis enlargement surgery if the surgery was as 'easy' as having breast implants - even when the wife is perfectly happy with his size.
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Old 06-15-2016, 03:31 PM
 
Location: Sugarmill Woods , FL
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They ain't your breasts, you don't get to decide!
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Old 06-15-2016, 03:39 PM
 
Location: Portland, OR
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They ain't your breasts, you don't get to decide!
Well he kinda does if he is the one on the hook for the bill...
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Old 06-15-2016, 03:43 PM
 
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What are you, frickin' crazy ??? Your lady wants bigger boobs and you are opposed ! Most guys would be dialing the plastic surgeon right now !
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Old 06-15-2016, 04:04 PM
 
Location: New Yawk
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LOL, I once told the Mr. that I was seriously considering a reduction and he was all "I won't stop you, but.... why???" until I promised to get the leftovers injected into my arse .

Seriously though, I wouldn't actually go through with it. The cost, the downtime, the risk of infection or complications... not worth it to me.
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