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Sometimes when we were arguying he would even hit me but never too serious.
Were you abused when you were growing up? The fact that you can't see that he is an abusive liar makes me think that you had a very dysfunctional childhood and think this kind of stuff is acceptable or forgivable.
Were you abused when you were growing up? The fact that you can't see that he is an abusive liar makes me think that you have a very dysfunctional childhood and think this kind of stuff is acceptable or forgivable.
Well my childhood was not the best. I really grew up in a family where my mother was the man of the house. My father is an addicted casino player and he would always put that above everything. My mom always tried to keep the family together but it seems it didnt work out. But from the aspect of abuse my parents were not hitting me. Maybe once or twice in my whole life. And this i didnt have it with any other relationship. But when he would do it then he would appologize immediately and hug me and ever cry with me.
I hope you realize that his hitting you will not improve and, in fact, is very likely to get worse. You are potentially risking your life.
actually the last 3 months he was more quiet but probably what you say is true because once you do sth for the first time then its easier to do it again and again
I would never stay in a relationship with someone who hit me. I have a zero tolerance policy for physical abuse. So I'd have left the first time it happened and I wouldn't care how much he cried and begged and apologized.
Physical abuse is not normal behavior. Normal people in a loving and healthy relationship never use violence to have an argument. They use their words to discuss the problem and come up with a solution.
Therefore my vote is that you dump this loser and block him from ever contacting you again. Get a restraining order if you have to in order to keep him away from you.
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