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Old 07-13-2016, 11:43 AM
 
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She practically through herself at him and he just hee hoed around.

Now he's on here??!!

He could be under the sheets by now had he bypassed this thread.
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Old 07-14-2016, 09:42 AM
 
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we set up dinner for next week!
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Old 07-15-2016, 11:03 AM
 
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Exclamation Girl asks me for my number, then tells me just as friends?

Mod cut: Duplicate of opening post.

I asked her if she wanted to get dinner and she said yes, and scheduled a time and place. So we are flirting/texting a bit and she says, "I just want you to know this is just as friends, is that cool?"

What the hell? After how forward she was?

My guess is she's just trying to cover her bases so if we hook up she doesn't feel like a ****.

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Old 07-15-2016, 11:09 AM
 
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Text her back with something like "we'll go dutch then", then go to dinner and see if she really means it. No harm in one dinner.
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Old 07-15-2016, 11:11 AM
 
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Lose her number if you're not interested in just being friends and save yourself the drama.
Move on with life

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Old 07-15-2016, 11:21 AM
 
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You won't hook up. She already decided that.

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Old 07-15-2016, 11:34 AM
 
Location: Des Moines IA
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I have a few friends like that. They just like to be flirtatious and get attention with guys. Take a bunch of selfies, post em on social media. Yeah sometimes you gotta take it with a grain of salt, just cause she fiirts with you, unfortunately doesn't mean she is interested.
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Old 07-15-2016, 11:43 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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So, you finally asked her out, and she rejected the idea of anything other than being friends?

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Old 07-15-2016, 12:05 PM
 
Location: Manchester, UK
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My guess is she's just trying to cover her bases so if we hook up she doesn't feel like a ****.
THAT is the conclusion you came to? Bit of a leap IMO.

Anyway, if you want more than just friends, be upfront and tell her.
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Old 07-15-2016, 12:11 PM
 
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What the hell? After how forward she was?
Option #1: You were vague in asking her out which told her YOU aren't really interested in her and now she's backpedaling.

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I texted her saying we should get drinks/dinner sometime
Option #2: She was using you to show the other guy she's not hung up on him and how quickly she's moved on and she was never really interested.
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