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Old 07-15-2016, 04:31 PM
 
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I've said this before but with relationships I'm always the last one in & the first one out.

I've been told this is "male" behavior more than once & even by some of the ex's.

??

It dosen't keep me up at night or anything but sometimes I wonder if it means

something is "wrong" with me. I almost feel kind of guilty; as if I enjoy some unfair advantage or something.
I don't mean to cyberstalk you . But, your profiles says you have 11 kids! If this is true god bless you lol. My 2 give me enough trouble! Okay... back to thread!
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Old 07-15-2016, 07:11 PM
 
Location: Pa
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You don't settle for any loser?
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Old 07-15-2016, 07:40 PM
 
Location: colorado springs, CO
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I don't mean to cyberstalk you . But, your profiles says you have 11 kids! If this is true god bless you lol. My 2 give me enough trouble! Okay... back to thread!
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Old 07-16-2016, 03:44 AM
 
Location: Johannesburg, South Africa
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That wasn't very nice when she said she was moving on to "better things". And she's really downplaying things when she says it was a "silly misunderstanding".

Just think very carefully if you want to get back with her, as she could possibly do this to you again.
Indeed. But this is always one of those dilemmas in life: just when you've accepted the relationship is toast, and you want to move on to other things, you immediately get slammed in the stomach that in actual fact the person who did the dirty deed by breaking it all off in the first place because they too wanted to move on, find themselves all at sea and want to get in one's way again as if nothing was wrong!

So it's not always the case where exs move on; sometimes they trip over their own feet taking a step back an getting in the way of those that are trying to move forward to produce one very complicated logjam.

I don't need all that hassle quite frankly. You have to follow your own road in life at times, and you must stick with it; otherwise you'll never get to where you want to go.
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Old 07-16-2016, 06:06 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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You ever notice, how when you break up with your Boyfriend or Girlfriend, that a month or even a few months go by, and you find out that, they have already moved on and have a new partner, and everyone loves them, and are commenting great things about them etc. While your still single and only dating or even not have any luck with dating, remaining single? Why is it, that our ex-partners, get to move on and find someone while we don't?
Because they don't fester and carry on living

Granted emotionally a break can and usually does take its toll but the longer you leave it ( moving on ) the harder it is IMO.

Personally if my exes have moved on and are happy I'm delighted for them
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