Husband won't stop playing games.

[TJenkins602]

Originally Posted by Chloenees

I am not sure if I am in a very unique situation because my husband is 44 and is a gamer that has really gotten obsessed with games. You normally hear this kind of thing happening with younger men but it's my reality.

Well have three children, one is 19 and already in college the others are 17 and 14. My husband has played games off and on before but as of the last two years it has really taken off. He has got grossly involved with world of warcraft, is part of a "guild" and has frequently missed events and even date nights because he plays it.

He does work but as soon as he get home from work he gets on his computer and logs on to it and that's all he does. He has even spent lots of money to upgrade his computer and now it has literally become his world. I have tried talking to him but he doesn't view it as a problem and I have even tried going the route of dressing sexy but when I did and went into his man cave he has set up he shrugged me off. He even got real upset saying "can't you see I am in the middle of something?!?!". I went back to our bedroom and cried it hurt so much.

When I told him our daughter will be graduating soon he just said "that's great make sure to video tape it for me" seriously???

I am so tired of this. And I know our other two daughters are as well.

When I read the headline, I admit I was expecting a lot worse. Something along the lines of him lying or leading you on or having an affair or something.

But him being so caught up in his video games is not really a good sign either. He has to give you a little attention too. It's not like he's smothering you.

[lovesummer20]

If he's telling you to "videotape" your daughter's graduation, then maybe the marriage is over.