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You are 17. Thats why. Even you have a chance, and you might think you can win the girl over. The winner here won't be you or her bf. It will be her. Playing you 2 like a violin.
If you want a chance with her, tell her you are interested in her but she has a bf. So, call you if things doesn't work out between them. In the mean time, have fun with other single girls. Don't hang out with her.
So it's been awhile since I've posted but here it goes.
Lately I've been hanging out with this girl and she is absolutely great. We tend to finish eachother's sentences and I've never been so comfortable around someone my whole life (a whopping 17 years).
I'm not joking when we have everything in common, same taste in music, movies, dating, and sex. So needless to say I'm helplessly head over heels for this girl. Now comes to the trouble, she has a boyfriend, and he is absolutely
BAT****CRAZY.
He steals her phone and texts me and tells me she hates me and then deletes all the texts like nothing happened. I keep telling her but all she does is forgive him. What should I do?
All I know is that I feel like Jim from The Office on a spiritual level, when he's in love with Pam while she's dating that one dude.
She didn't even tell me she had a bf up until a few days ago.
You didn't answer the rest of the questions. Has she been pretending she's single, and going on dates with you? Or did you assume she was single, and start hanging around her? How did this head-over-heels, sentence-finishing scenario develop?
BTW, it's not bat---- crazy for a bf to grab her phone when some infatuated kid calls her, to tell him to get lost. That's what people in relationships do. It's normal. It's not normal to keep calling someone that you know has a bf. How did you get her number, anyway? Did she tell you he was a jerk and she wanted to break up with him, so she gave you her number? WTH is going on? Oh, and how old is she?
Disagree, I would consider it a red flag.
I think it would depend on what we are not hearing here, every story has three sides after all.
However, simple fact is that the OP needs to back off. She has a boyfriend and is off the market.
If her boyfriend really is that bad, she'll soon be back on the market.
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BTW, it's not bat---- crazy for a bf to grab her phone when some infatuated kid calls her, to tell him to get lost. That's what people in relationships do. It's normal.
So it's been awhile since I've posted but here it goes.
Lately I've been hanging out with this girl and she is absolutely great. We tend to finish eachother's sentences and I've never been so comfortable around someone my whole life (a whopping 17 years).
I'm not joking when we have everything in common, same taste in music, movies, dating, and sex. So needless to say I'm helplessly head over heels for this girl. Now comes to the trouble, she has a boyfriend, and he is absolutely bat**** crazy. He steals her phone and texts me and tells me she hates me and then deletes all the texts like nothing happened. I keep telling her but all she does is forgive him. What should I do?
All I know is that I feel like Jim from The Office on a spiritual level, when he's in love with Pam while she's dating that one dude.
The only thing that is crazy about the guy is that he stays with a girl who is having sex with another guy. He should break up with her. Then you can start seeing her and then end up in his shoes.
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