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Old 10-14-2016, 07:06 AM
 
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Hi all,

I have my 5th date with a very nice woman i have been seeing tonight.We are going to the movies. We get on so well, we flirt but so far there has not been a kiss or even any touching. She gives me no signals.

Is this a lost cause?

 
Old 10-14-2016, 07:20 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Why haven't you kissed?
 
Old 10-14-2016, 07:23 AM
 
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ive been nervous to kiss her as she gives me zero signals. ive tried holding her hand to show i like hee
 
Old 10-14-2016, 07:26 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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I have no advice, I haven't been that timid since 16. I just don't get it.
 
Old 10-14-2016, 07:29 AM
 
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ive been nervous to kiss her as she gives me zero signals. ive tried holding her hand to show i like hee
What kind of signal are you expecting? She's gone out on five dates with you and she didn't cringe when you held her hand, right?
 
Old 10-14-2016, 07:31 AM
 
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she hasnt done ANYTHING. she hasnt touched me first. she hasnt leant in. she hasnt lightly brushed my arm. she hasnt touched my shoulder.

nothing. we are both 38 years old.

how can i kiss her with no signals? what if she pushes me off?
 
Old 10-14-2016, 07:31 AM
 
Location: Ohio
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she hasnt done ANYTHING. she hasnt touched me first. she hasnt leant in. she hasnt lightly brushed my arm. she hasnt touched my shoulder.

nothing. we are both 38 years old.

how can i kiss her with no signals? what if she pushes me off?
Shes waiting on YOU.
 
Old 10-14-2016, 07:33 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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how can i kiss her with no signals? what if she pushes me off?

You just kiss her (3+ dates ago).

If she balks/pulls away/whatever, then stop.

If she doesn't, go with the flow, lips don't lie.

Simple.
 
Old 10-14-2016, 07:34 AM
 
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waiting on me? its been 4 dates already.

never met a woman like this. shall i just ask her look are we just friends? she puts 2 xx on her text messages. i dont get it
 
Old 10-14-2016, 07:34 AM
 
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If she's gone out with you FIVE TIMES, that's your signal.
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