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I googled your name because i smell fish. Unless a lot of people are stealing your name... youre 38, no 19 no 26...darn im confused! Youre Asian, no african american, now indian....darn im confused again.
A MONTH ago you were posting here that your girlfriend wanted a CHILD.
she hasnt done ANYTHING. she hasnt touched me first. she hasnt leant in. she hasnt lightly brushed my arm. she hasnt touched my shoulder.
nothing. we are both 38 years old.
how can i kiss her with no signals? what if she pushes me off?
So did you go back in time???
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Originally Posted by Prash99
Hello all,
I hope you are well. I am male and would love any advice as i am in pieces currently.
I am 41 and my now ex-girlfriend has just turned 38. Neither of us has children yet. She very much wants one child. We have been in a relationship for around 18 months and are / were very much in love with each other. She is my soulmate and i am hers and we wanted to be with each other for the rest of our lives.
She said early on that she is set on having a child and that given she was 36 when we met, time was not on her side, which i agreed with. I have never been hugely keen on becoming a father myself. I can see a lot of the joyful parts of being a parent, but also the commitment and stress have always worried me and if i am cut out for it.
We dated and i think each of us thought that the other person would end up coming round. I even went to see a counsellor 4 times to get to the root of why i am not family orientated as i really wanted to get around this issue and have a future with my girlfriend. I love her so much.
My girlfriend even said that she only wanted my child so badly, she would consider asking for my sperm and getting a legal contract drawn up if needs be.
Sadly we broke up on Monday, as she said she needs to now move on for good and achieve her goals. We are still very much in love and it hurts so much.
I cant help thinking i have done the wrong thing and let go of such an amazing woman. I am thinking that i could have a child with her, and it will all work out. The only way to be with her is to have a family with her.
I hope you are well. I am male and would love any advice as i am in pieces currently.
I am 41 and my now ex-girlfriend has just turned 38. Neither of us has children yet. She very much wants one child. We have been in a relationship for around 18 months and are / were very much in love with each other. She is my soulmate and i am hers and we wanted to be with each other for the rest of our lives.
She said early on that she is set on having a child and that given she was 36 when we met, time was not on her side, which i agreed with. I have never been hugely keen on becoming a father myself. I can see a lot of the joyful parts of being a parent, but also the commitment and stress have always worried me and if i am cut out for it.
We dated and i think each of us thought that the other person would end up coming round. I even went to see a counsellor 4 times to get to the root of why i am not family orientated as i really wanted to get around this issue and have a future with my girlfriend. I love her so much.
My girlfriend even said that she only wanted my child so badly, she would consider asking for my sperm and getting a legal contract drawn up if needs be.
Sadly we broke up on Monday, as she said she needs to now move on for good and achieve her goals. We are still very much in love and it hurts so much.
I cant help thinking i have done the wrong thing and let go of such an amazing woman. I am thinking that i could have a child with her, and it will all work out. The only way to be with her is to have a family with her.
Have i just made a huge mistake?
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Originally Posted by Prash99
she hasnt done ANYTHING. she hasnt touched me first. she hasnt leant in. she hasnt lightly brushed my arm. she hasnt touched my shoulder.
nothing. we are both 38 years old.
how can i kiss her with no signals? what if she pushes me off?
Doesn't pass the sniff test. You messed up your stories, OP.
Wow, are people really that bored? Go read some slash fanfic or something, OP.
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