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Old 12-25-2016, 08:46 PM
 
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so this guy, asked me out he said he has been crushing on me all semester. we had one class together in our university. He randomly stopped me in the hallway and we chatted, he asked about my family, my program, my background and then asked for my number and snapchat. After about 30 minutes of chatting he told me he thought we had great chemistry. He asked if we could go on a date sometime. I told him i would text him my schedule which i did later that day it was 2 weeks ago on a monday. We agreed to meet on a wednesday, 2 days later. i never heard from him until saturday at 8pm that week and he simply just wrote "hey". i ignored it. I saw a picture on his whatsapp of him and a girl and they were holding hands, just the other day, and i messaged him and said "i see you got a gf" and he replied "yeah". I'm confused because he asked me out two weeks ago and said he'd been crushing on me all semester.. how does one get into a relationship within 2 weeks?
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Old 12-25-2016, 08:49 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Don't waste your time...
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Old 12-25-2016, 09:13 PM
 
Location: Queens, NY
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There's really no timeframe as to how quickly someone gets into a relationship.

And as for him crushing on you, he was probably playing a numbers game (which if someone is single, I see no issue with at all), and he found a girl that liked him back.
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Old 12-25-2016, 09:31 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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We've been through this already....move on.
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Old 12-25-2016, 09:33 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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so this guy, asked me out he said he has been crushing on me all semester. we had one class together in our university. He randomly stopped me in the hallway and we chatted, he asked about my family, my program, my background and then asked for my number and snapchat. After about 30 minutes of chatting he told me he thought we had great chemistry. He asked if we could go on a date sometime. I told him i would text him my schedule which i did later that day it was 2 weeks ago on a monday. We agreed to meet on a wednesday, 2 days later. i never heard from him until saturday at 8pm that week and he simply just wrote "hey". i ignored it. I saw a picture on his whatsapp of him and a girl and they were holding hands, just the other day, and i messaged him and said "i see you got a gf" and he replied "yeah". I'm confused because he asked me out two weeks ago and said he'd been crushing on me all semester.. how does one get into a relationship within 2 weeks?
Well clearly with the added bit at the bottom you've confirmed what most thought on your last thread..... HE'S A PUA

And I'd guess he's known her longer than 2 weeks
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Old 12-26-2016, 06:03 AM
 
Location: Florida
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He was juggling you both. He picked her.
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Old 12-26-2016, 06:16 AM
 
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so this guy, asked me out he said he has been crushing on me all semester. we had one class together in our university. He randomly stopped me in the hallway and we chatted, he asked about my family, my program, my background and then asked for my number and snapchat. After about 30 minutes of chatting he told me he thought we had great chemistry. He asked if we could go on a date sometime. I told him i would text him my schedule which i did later that day it was 2 weeks ago on a monday. We agreed to meet on a wednesday, 2 days later. i never heard from him until saturday at 8pm that week and he simply just wrote "hey". i ignored it. I saw a picture on his whatsapp of him and a girl and they were holding hands, just the other day, and i messaged him and said "i see you got a gf" and he replied "yeah". I'm confused because he asked me out two weeks ago and said he'd been crushing on me all semester.. how does one get into a relationship within 2 weeks?
Like Raena77 said, don't waste your time. This has drama in the making on it. He wanted to leave you intrigued, which he did. He should have been honest with you though about the GF.
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Old 12-26-2016, 06:19 AM
 
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so this guy, asked me out he said he has been crushing on me all semester. we had one class together in our university. He randomly stopped me in the hallway and we chatted, he asked about my family, my program, my background and then asked for my number and snapchat. After about 30 minutes of chatting he told me he thought we had great chemistry. He asked if we could go on a date sometime. I told him i would text him my schedule which i did later that day it was 2 weeks ago on a monday. We agreed to meet on a wednesday, 2 days later. i never heard from him until saturday at 8pm that week and he simply just wrote "hey". i ignored it. I saw a picture on his whatsapp of him and a girl and they were holding hands, just the other day, and i messaged him and said "i see you got a gf" and he replied "yeah". I'm confused because he asked me out two weeks ago and said he'd been crushing on me all semester.. how does one get into a relationship within 2 weeks?
Some people take about 3 seconds to get into a relationship and others take years.
Obviously he does not want you, move on already.
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Old 12-26-2016, 06:58 AM
 
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Don't be surprised if you hear from him again in the future. If you do, don't get involved with him. He's already shown you who he is.
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Old 12-31-2016, 03:57 AM
 
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Thats on the guy's shoulders
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